Part 4 - What a Woman Must Have in her Online Dating Profile
Part 4 - What a Woman Must Have in her Online Dating Profile
This fourth article is about writing the key aspects of your online dating profile, especially describing what's vital in your life. Then, any guy reading your profile will understand those areas in which you will not compromise, because vital means just that.ChildrenWhat about children - do you want them, maybe you are already a parent? There are probably drop-down boxes in the site's profile set-up screen for this, but you may want to say more. For example the man will have to enjoy taking a parental role (and you may have his children round for sleepovers). You could phrase it like this: "until they leave home my children will be central in my life and ideally I want to meet a guy who is closely involved with children of his own, understands and enjoys the challenges of parenthood'.Friends and Social ActivitiesAre you a homelover, staying in at night, or are you out meeting people and socialising? Are your girlfriends round with you often? Finding someone compatible with that lifestyle is important; after all, how would you feel if your man was out at a bar or football game several nights a week? Maybe it would suit you, maybe not - some couples have entirely separate social lives - but would it work for you (or him)?PoliticsPerhaps you are involved in town politics or an action group - these tend to be driven from deep within the person - then it will be important that you highlight that aspect of yourself. If you are at meetings a couple of nights a week then you need to make that clear in your profile.Whilst we are on the topic of politics, remember that many couples of different politics can co-exist quite happily, and there are some people who have to be with a partner having a similar political outlook and set of values. If you are one of those people to whom politics is an essential part of life, then you need to say so clearly.Your PetsSome people just do not want to live in a house with pets (especially cats, dogs or birds) and there can be good reasons for this - for example, allergies. If keeping your pet is not negotiable then you need to say so in your profile.Your Career and RelocationYou may have a very demanding job or career, but how will it be if the new man in your life is in the Army (say) and away for 8 months of the year? This is certainly an area to explore very early on. Certainly, if you are in such a career yourself then you do need to make that clear in your online profile. Long periods of separation are not always good for relationships.If someone works elsewhere in the country, would you be prepared to move - maybe the kids are in school and you don't want to move? Most dating agencies ask about geographical range so that they can match people appropriately, but there are few people who really want to enter into a relationship with somebody who lives on another continent!FinallyThe principle behind explaining the 'vitals' in your life is that you don't want to meet and fall for someone and then find that there is a major problem caused by one of the above (or other 'vitals'). This approach will help you filter out the unsuitable men in advance. Sometimes, apparently unsuitable people can solve the compatibility problems, but this is not the usual story.(c) 2010 Phil Marks
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