Your wife cheated on you. As much as that tore you apart, it doesn't hold a candle to the pain that you're feeling now that she's gone. Your cheating ex wife still has a firm grip on your heart. So, how do you cope with the pain of missing her?
You've tried the usual tricks to get over her. You've put up a profile on a nice dating site. You've even chatted with a couple of women online in hopes that they would ease the pain. They are nice ladies with a lot to offer the right man.
But, they just aren't your wife. Right now you feel like only your wife can fill the empty place in your heart. How do you move past that point and return to the world of the living once again?
How do you feel whole again when you know that she took a piece of you with her when she left?
It's hard to get started but that is the one thing you need to do more than anything else. You need to get up and go on with the business of your day. As difficult as it seems, the routine will work as a sort of salve for your soul. If it doesn't take away the pain completely it will dull or numb it to some degree.
Next you need to find someone impartial to talk with about how you are feeling. Friends you shared or people who are loyal to you and you alone in this situation aren't always the best choice. Consider a member of the clergy or even a counselor to work out how you're feeling and get positive feedback.
Then you should try to find a few distractions to keep your mind and body occupied. You aren't so much as running from the pain as you are trying to overcome the loneliness. Part of the reason you miss your cheating ex wife is that you are lonely. Get busy with friends and family so that you don't have time or the inclination to feel lonely.