Wife's Cheating – How to Get Instant Answers About Your Wife's Cheating
Wife's Cheating How to Get Instant Answers About Your Wife's Cheating
When you find out your wife's cheating, you want answers and you want them right now. It's understandable. Your mind is swimming with questions and no small amount of outrage, hurt, anger, and blinding jealousy. How could she do this to you? What does he have that you don't? Is she in love with him? These questions and so many more can drive you to madness even as you're trying to get a handle on the pain just so you can take your next breath.
Does that about sum up what you're going through?
You're not alone. Many men in your situation are going through the same thing. I know that isn't much comfort to you but it helps to see that there are other men out there who do make it through this. You will make it too.
Here's what you need to do.
First things first, don't let your mouth get the better of you. This is a time when it's very important not to say something you don't mean, can't take back, and will probably live to regret. Just don't say it if there's any question about how it will be taken, come across, or hurt your wife. This isn't about lashing out for payback or to try to force your wife to share your pain.
If you need to get a little distance so you can get a handle on your emotions, that's an excellent idea. In fact, if you want fast answers, it may be the best thing for you. Seriously! It gives you an opportunity to sort through the landslide of questions in your mind and figure out the questions you'd really like to have answered.
Here's the best way to go about getting instant answers to your burning questions.
1) Write the questions down as they come to you.
2) Wait five minutes and then reread the question. Is there a better way to ask? Do you really want to know the answer? What are you going to do if you don't like the answer? If you still feel it's a good question leave it on the list. If not, scratch it off and move on to the next question.
3) Take your list to your wife and ask them one by one.
4) Give her time to answer each one and hold your judgment on the situation until you've heard everything she has to say.
5) Don't show anger or frustration at the answers if you want to hear the next answers. Your wife will feed off your emotions and if you're getting angry or frustrated it will have her clamming up fast.
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