Should We Stay Together For Children?
Should We Stay Together For Children?
It is good to see a father, mother and children happily having a picnic at the park. Having this kind of family outing even just for once a week is a good sign of letting your children feel proud and blesses to have parents like you.
However, there are times wherein we can say that families who are doing this is not an assurance that parents staying at each other's side are happy. They are only forced to stay together for the sake of their children. Are you in this kind of situation?
There are many reasons why this could happen. Both of you may decide of getting divorced because of personality differences, lifestyle changes, etc. you feel like your husband or wife is not the same person whom you married before. You realized that both of you have many opposing likes and dislikes. In the middle of your marriage life, his or her real lifestyle showed up. At first you thought that she's only a simple woman and not addicted to material things but now she's asking too much money just to fulfil her luxury needs. Or before marriage he is a descent guy and thought that he is not into any gambling activities but all that you knew about him before marriage were false. He only showed you that he's a good guy so you will accept his marriage proposal. You feel that you married with the wrong man or woman. And because of these many differences, there are no days that you do not quarrel. There are even instances that both of you are already hurting each other physically.
So, will you still continue being married to that person? Maybe the one that disturb in you are your children. Of course, it is normal to consider them in every decision that you will make. But if you are not happy anymore with the company of your partner, there's no reason for you of forcing yourself to be one with him. Children don't necessarily need married parents. Although, staying together with a good relationship can help children to have less anxiety, depression, the defiant behaviour as well as excel at school. What they need are the happy as well as healthy parents. This means that even if children have married parents but keep on arguing all the time, they are not happy. This can only cause them too much depression. This can also cause them not to go to school, go with friends who are doing illegal activities, and other bad habits; whereas, as parents, if you will focus of what kind of parent you can be to your children, disregarding of your relationship, could result better. Even if both of you are not staying together anymore, continue to be a responsible parent to your kids. No matter how many differences you have with your wife or husband, do not forget that your world is not only focused to him, you still have your children who deserve to be taking care of properly. They deserve to have the utmost love and care by their parents.
Therefore, the bottom line with the question, "Should we stay together for children?" is, it is not necessary that you will continue the marriage and end up with divorce. What is important is that you will continue to be as good parents to your children. We can't deny the fact that it is best to have a complete family, not a broken one but there are really instances that we cannot force what is not meant to be. Make your children proud that you are their parents. Have some family activities like going to the beach, eating at the children's favorite restaurant, shopping at the mall, having a picnic or simply going to church together and pray. In that way, regardless of the truth, your children can still be proud and blessed to have parents like you. The Anxiety Free Child Program Shortcode Kid Coupon Discount and Review Coping with stress and anxiety among teenagers Childs play bought to the streets Smart Parents Can Save Time in Kids Admission Making Use of Children's Bed Guards Kspin Designs Children's Boutique The Improper Ways Of Doing Thing Is Hurtful To Children's Responsibility Lazy children do not exist Is Anxiety Free Children a Scam or Not? Watch The Karate Kid 2010 Online How to Prevent Your Kids from Lying How to Stop Wetting the Bed – Effective Tips for For Both Adults And Children