How to give good children to society
How to give good children to society
How to give good children to society?
Dalip Singh Wasan, Advocate.
We should be thankful to those elders who had established this marriage system and with which the present family system has been established in the world. We are producing children and the we are developing men and women for the society of tomorrow. Therefore, it is our duty to develop good children and for that purpose, we should keep in our mind the following points;
We should keep the number of children two or the maximum, three and in no case we should increase the number of children in our family.
We should see that we produce children before we reach thirty five years age because if we produce children beyond this age, we shall not be in a position to give them proper education, proper training and proper adjustment in life.
We must care for proper health and growth of the child and if there is some difficulty, that must be cured or corrected with the help of experts.
We must provide our children with proper food and other needs.
We must provide our children with better schools and colleges.
We should choose proper profession, trade, calling or employment for our children and for that purpose, we must be careful and must keep watch on our children and we must have vocational guidance so that proper career could be selected for them and that too in time so that they could have proper subjects and achievements.
We must try to understand the aptitude of our children and we should also see in what occupation they have interest.
We must see that our children are not having bad company and they are not indulging in drug addiction, drinking, opium eating or the like.
We must see that they are keeping good moral character.
We must ensure that they are not turning fundamentalists, but are secular in outlook because now we are living in a mixed society and everyone should be having a secular nature.
We must see that our children are adjusted at work and have strted earning money so that they could be married in time and are able to run a family of their own.
We should see that our children are completing their education and training in time and are not wasting more time.
We should see that our children are adjusted at a work in which they shall be progressing and shall not be condemned to stagnation.
We must choose or help our children in choosing a right life partner.
We should not discriminate with a child and all should be treated alike in the family.
If we are executing a will, we must do justice with all our children.
We should not keep secrets from our children and our children must know what we have and what is our financial position in life.
If mother of children dies, the father should not have a second marriage, but should engage himself in bringing up the children because these children shall not be able to adjust themselves with the new mother.
Similarly the mother must know that these children shall not be adjusted with the new father.
We should not keep our children with the joint family when they are earning and married and at such stage, they must be allowed to establish their own house.
These are some of the points and we can add more points for a better establishment of life.
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