Helping Children Cope With Studying

The learning process can be a fun and joyous experience

. However, more often than never, children find it hard to cope, handle and manage with the process of studying. As parents, you might think that there is only so much you can do to help your child cope. This is very wrong. There is actually so much you can do to help your child cope up with studying. Let me tell you how.

Too often, children feel pressurized by the current educational system. They are forced to memorize and endure hours of restless homework just to obtain straight A's or good grades in major examinations. Studying has become a process not to gain knowledge but a process involved to score well in exams.

As parents, instead of adding on to your children's pressure, your job is to help them cope with it. First, be more understanding towards your child's feelings. Don't spend thousands to get your child into the best tuitions. Although I understand, as parents you want the very best for your child. But, don't you think hours of studying with no rest will not be fruitful. Your child will only be exhausted and won't be able to concentrate or perform well. He or she might also be too tired to actually pay attention while lessons are being taught. So, find out what subjects your child needs help with and then consider extra help.

Also, encourage your child to develop independent work habits. Let them plan out their own timetable. Let them study when they feel most convenient and fresh. Don't plan things for them. However, it is your job to advise them in all these processes. Make sure your child's daily life is a balance between studying, spending some time with family and some outdoor activity. This will help your child develop a healthy lifestyle and cope with studying easily.

Next, allow your child to express his or her feeling openly. Listen to your child. See what he or she is having trouble with. If your child does not do well in a test, do not lash out at him or her. Instead, find out why this happened. To do this, you must be open-minded and ask your child what his or her problem is. Often, some children may not fair well in a certain exam because they do not like that subject. Find ways to make your child develop a liking for that particular subject.

Also, keep a good relationship with your child's teachers. Keep in touch with them and find out your child's progress. This is important because children these days spend more time in school than home. Thus, when it comes to studying and learning, your child's teacher may know your child better than you do.

Always find a way to encourage and motivate your child. Reward your child, after all he or she deserves it. Set rules and stick with them. Understand them and help them. All these tips will definitely help you help your child cope with studying.

by: Anna Peacocks

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