5 Ways To Spend Time With Your Lovable Children.
Spending quality time with our children is extremely important for their development and happiness
. I have interviewed thousands of children around the world and they told me that time spent with them doesnt need to be elaborate or long, but it must be "quality". We must find ways then to slow down and slip in some memorable time that will let our children know that we love and care for them.Many children will let you know in their own "subtle" ways if they feel that you are not giving them the attention that they need. Some will withdraw while others will "act out." You might see it when a child gives "lip" to a teacher, fights with another classmate or resorts back to behaviors that once got your attention like increased crying, throwing tantrums or even bed-wetting. This is a way to capture your attention, albeit often negative, so that they can enjoy "focused" time with you. Essentially the thought process is, "if I can't get her attention by doing something good, I'll get her attention by doing something bad." Nobody wants that!
So how can you find time when you feel you don't have any to spend?
1. One-on-one time: Alone time with your child is best when you are doing something you both enjoy. With one family it may be the time when Dad takes the baby so Mom can spend time with the older child. This could mean going to a movie, going to the local theater to see Cinderella, or just sitting at the park on a bench and talking. The frequency of one-on-one time is up to you, but the children I interviewed said at least once a month is the minimum. If you are a single mother with more than one child you could arrange it so that each Saturday you spend quality time with one of your children and the last Saturday of the month you spend quality time as a family.
Marking your dates down on a calendar is a great idea and shows your children you make this time a priority.
2. Integrate Together Time into Your Daily Schedule: Children love to help. Do you have a mailing to do? Have them put the stamps on the envelopes. Need to go shopping? Make grocery shopping "fun time" with you. Need to make dinner? Let them help you by contributing to the preparation process. While it might be messier and it may time more time in the beginning, you will see that the children will become your greatest helpers and they will look back and remember that "before dinner" was always special time with you.
3. Phantom Time: Don't have a moment to spare until about 3 a.m.? You can still let your children know that you care. Write notes and drop them into their lunch boxes. This was one of the top ten things children told me made them feel loved and cared for by their parent. Other ideas would be to record a short video for them using a camera and leaving it for them at the breakfast table. Be creative here!
4. Break time: Everyone is busy. Some parents are busier than others. Slide in a "break time" so that you and your children can spend 15 minutes or a half hour together. Set a timer if you need to so that everyone knows when "break time" starts and finishes. Give warnings to your children when 2 minutes are left so that it doesn't come as a surprise. Don't even have break time available? Wake your child up 15 minutes early so that you can spend a little extra time doing something fun in the morning. You might not think that 15 minutes is any significant time at all, but to a child, it is 15 extra minutes with you.
Spending time with your children provides them with opportunities to learn and to be heard. Most of all, it provides you and your children with time to connect. It's these connections that make your children feel loved. So leave the beds unstripped for another few minutes and put the coffee on an automatic timer. Take those extra moments to spend with your children. When you look back, you will be thankful for the memories.
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