Three Common Misunderstanding On Choosing Kids Toys For Children
There are too many kids toys with different colors, different designs and different shapes in the toys shopping mall, when facing these array of toys, as parents, do you know how to choose the right toys for kids? What's worse, in the festival, relatives always buy lots of toys such as RC cars, bus model for your children, which would make parents feel headache. In fact, children's pursuit is too simple and sometimes only one gift can make them feel satisfied.
There are too many articles online about how to choose the right kids toys for children and I believe as parents you have read some article on this topic. However, in the following article, some wrong ways on choosing toys for kids are showed below.
Firstly, some parents refuse children's requirement on new toys with tough ways
As parents, in daily life, they alway help their children to make decision and require children to obey their requirement. As a result, there is bad psychological condition for children so that kids are prone to fear parents and gradually they don't want to communicate with their parents. Under such circumstance, it is easy to stifle the children's imagination and parent-child relationship will be affected seriously.
Secondly, harm to children's self-esteem
Many parents always think that children are too young so that they don't have self-esteem. It is a wrong idea. Like the adults, children should pay more attention on maintaining children's self-esteem. As usual, parent should not refuse children's requirements if there are too many people around because it would make children feel uncomfortable and hurt children's self-esteem.
Thirdly, give children one reasonable reason
Even if you want to refuse children's requirement on new toys, you should give them one reasonable reason and give them exchange opportunities. However, in daily life, many parents can't reach this condition, they are always not likely to listen to them patiently. The children also have the right to express their ideas, as parents, we should take a few minutes to listen to children's ideas. If your children like to argue with you, it is not a bad situation because it can not only be beneficial to listen to children's voices, but also encourage children to think and refute, which can improve their solving skills and logical thinking.
All in all, as parents, we should fully respect children's requirement and take the equal exchange and communication with them. By the way, you should avoid these conditions showed above.
by: tony steve