Do You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? Don't Make These Mistakes
Like many of us you never thought it would happen to you. You had heard about it in other people's marriages. Indeed some of the couples that it happened to were good friends of yours. You sympathized with the offended party but in some ways you figured it was just something wrong with their relationship that neither party was willing to fix. So in the end one person starts cheating on the other.
You never had that worry until now. You have heard the rumors. That feeling in the pit of your stomach that maybe your spouse was cheating would not go away. Now it has become more and more clear that there maybe a whole lot of truth to it.
But there are still some loose ends and if you are not careful you could find yourself in a very precarious position.
1. Blind Alley
You think there is something to this but you wind up chasing after the wildest rumors out there concerning your spouse. Yes they are cheating but there is not an ounce of proof when it comes to the leads you are following. Since they are not true it will be easy for your spouse to deny their infidelity
2. Emotions by a Mile
Nobody is going to make a fool of you by destroying the sanctity of your marriage and that goes tenfold for your spouse. You decided to confront them with a full head of emotional steam. This is not a good idea.
Yes your adrenalin is probably racing but try to remain calm and collected when confronting your spouse. If they see you out of control with your emotions they may calculate that this is the best time to really do some emotional manipulation on you.
3. Shaky Ground
You have put together some evidence regarding their whereabouts, credit card charges and contact phone numbers and you are ready to let your philandering spouse have it. The problem is your evidence is not airtight. Yes you have pieced some things together but the fact of the matter is your spouse will be able to account for all of them.
Detecting whether your spouse is cheating requires patience on your part and rock solid evidence that cannot be disputed. Those two things are what separate an experienced highly respected private eye from the rest of the pack. You want to catch your spouse cheating but a rush to do it can make you end up looking like the person in the wrong.
by: D. A. Campbell