I Still Want Her - How To Deal With The Desire To Win Back Your Girlfriend

You hear it going through your head throughout the day

. I still want her. When you think about your ex girlfriend, all you can seem to do is think about how much you want to be able to win her back. You wish that she was still your girlfriend so that you could call her up, hear her sweet voice on the phone, and know that she is happy to hear your as well. That's not the way that it is right now and that upsets you. It stings to know that you have these deep feelings for her, but you really can't do anything about that. What if there was a better way to deal with this desire to win back your girlfriend than to just think about her all of the time?

There is a better way to handle this situation and most men that don't find a way to graduate beyond the level of just desiring to win her back usually don't end up getting what they want. It usually just ends up being one of those things that they have to deal with even though they don't want to. On the other side of the coin, if you are able to get past just feeling like you want to get her back and find a way that may make that happen, at least you have a chance to get to hear her talking on the phone to you once more.

Your desire to win back your girlfriend is a natural reaction to a change that has happened that is not what you want. The thing that you are going to have to do is acknowledge that change and then see if there is a way that you can turn that around and make it so that your ex girlfriend feels that same urge to reconcile that you do. I know that it probably doesn't seem like it is possible right now to make her feel that way, but you should realize that just about anything is possible when you have the right method to follow.

Turn That Desire Into Motivation To Take Action -

Having a desire to do something, like getting back an ex girlfriend, is not going to really help you out much unless you are able to turn that desire into the motivation to take action. The idea that you can just wait around till your ex girlfriend decides that she wants you back is one that usually leads nowhere. Of course, taking any old action is not going to do the trick. You are going to have to take action that produces results and the result that you need to produce is to make your ex feel the same desire to patch things up.

The only way to do that really is to make yourself seem like the most attraction option for her as far as boyfriends go. If you are clearly the kind of guy that she wants to be with, then it does not take that much work to hook back up with her again. This is where you need to really put your work in. You have changes that need to be made and you have to work on those first before you can expect her to come back to you. Once you have figured out what changes that you need to make and you have actually made them, you should be able to stand a much better chance of getting back with your ex girlfriend.

by: Chris Tyler

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