Effective and Positive Parenting
Proper parenting skills are a major requirement in this lifelong child rearing preparation
process and you have to be sure that you are equipped with good parenting skills. The basic parenting equipment that we have is the way in which our very own parents brought us up.
You have to remember parenting is not the type of job that you can quit, whenever you don't feel like it anymore.
As a parent, try to rediscover the inner child in you - to do this, you have to step inside and be in your children shoes. Try to remember what it was like to be a kid again, this process is called as "rediscovering your inner child". You must admit, that we tend to forget how it is to just relax and get stuck with our boring lifestyle and jobs. For you to understand the issues at hand with regards to your children, try putting yourself your children shoes for a change. Try to see things from your children perspective and you'll then gain a realization and a understanding about how they are feeling and why they are rebelling. Good parenting skills teaches you how to actually listen to your child's needs and not relinquish them, but it is all up to you on how can you stand strong and see the issues in your child's eyes and develop a solution that will please you both.
Parents are often times unappreciated and overworked. Always, think before you decide to become a parent. For a parent, their children are the ones who bring delightful joy in their lives, and though sometimes it is unavoidable that they too can bring tragic sorrows. Any money that this world can offer cannot buy a child's laughter, kisses and meaningful hugs.
Moreover, by avoiding conflicts out of fear thinking that your child will not love you back because you do not give everything him/her wants is ridiculous. As young as two years old, a child can start learning to do easy chores. When parents have the mind frame that giving your child things (from toys, to high tech gadgets etc. It is hard to see a child struggling in meeting their personal goal, but it's' wonderful to be there beside them as you see them slowly achieving it.
To gain cooperation from their child, Always give your child two choices - Being the parent, you are allowed to pick at least two choices that are both acceptable to the both of you when you offer it to your child. Always relate your command as a statement, and never as a your child a question - Most parents are prone to saying, "Would you like to star doing your homework now?" and other commands which should always be stated using a firm voice such as saying, "It's time to work on your homework now", which can help you gain more cooperation from your child.
A lot of the lessons now are all computerized, most probably your child is more adept in using a computer than you are. Parenting may be hard for some, while it can be easy for others. By taking interest, it will definitely encourage your own child to work harder and to maintain good behavior while at school. Oh, sure parents have been through difficult years or so, and then of course they know a lot better compared to our children, what we must keep in mind is that times have changed and what was be right for them in the past may not be right for their children.
First, parents should try to rearrange their schedules in order the entire family to sit down for meals even if it's just for one meal out of the week.
Parents should turn off the television during dinner time so that you can focus on family conversations. During dinner, there should not be anyone talking on the cell phone or playing electronic game (except for emergencies).
You can write down notes of positive and truly inspiring stories that you hear about in the media and then use those positive stories to start a dinner conversation with.
Effective and Positive Parenting
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