As if dating isn't hard enough, single parents looking for new relationships can be a very unusual challenge
. The most important thing to remember about the dating process with children can be
Finding someone who will love your children and treat them as their own.
Being honest and up front with the fact you do have children.
Having an understanding between the two of you, your children will always be your priority.
Your children are getting just as much attention as before your new relationship
Talking with your children about you starting to date again will help in knowing how they stand and what you both expect from one another. Ask them how they are feeling about you stepping back into the dating scene. Let them know you have every intention of keeping their life as normal as possible. But also explain to them how you want to find someone to share in your families life.
It is very easy to get caught up in the moment of a new relationship and begin to let your current lifestyle go south. The most important point to remember is to keep your children life and activities as consistent as prior to your new love.
When having your date meeting your children, try to keep it as laid back and relaxing as possible. Maybe a picnic at their favorite park or having your date over for a cookout will accomplish a non-threatening atmosphere for everyone involved. Do a game night and have your date over to meet your children. There are many ways to make sure everyone is included and not excluded.
Have your date to understand your children are number one in your life and they will need to come into your world and not the other way around. Children will be very resentful if they feel their parent is being taken away from them and can cause a battle of the wills. Help them to work on acceptance of your new relationship without forcing in down their throats.
With a little communication and a whole lot of patience, it is very possible to get back into the dating scene and have everyone happily on the same page. Don't get so caught up in the moment of dating again, your children and life as they know it, takes a back burner and ends up going down in flames.