What is Wrong With Men Today
What is Wrong With Men Today
What is Wrong With Men Today
Few days ago a group of women asked me the above question. The background to this question was after they observed that may married men were into other relationship, some had even abandoned their good homes and "got married" elsewhere. Why can't the men of today get committed? Why can't they honour their marital commitments? Why can't they stay committed to their marital vows?
These questions got me sorrow searching. The question that I kept asking myself was what has changed? Has there been any paradigm shift anywhere?
My tentative views are that there has been a paradigm shift. We have been going through a paradigm shift for a while now. This shift however has been in the way men view the world, it has not been shift in men's mind set but more a shift in women's mind set. Now ladies do not hurry to crucify me!
In many developing nation and in Uganda in particular we have been going through a movement for women emancipation. This emancipation though centred on equal rights for women has other emotional payoffs. We have been telling women to stand up for their rights, to be assertive, to ask for what they what to go for their goals without recognising that some of these goals, some of the things they want are emotional. So what if lady desires the company of a male colleague? We have been telling them to go for it! And it if this male colleague is married??
Men on the other hand have remained largely the same. They are still socialised to hunt, pursue, attack, chase, and propose....Little is done in preparing men to otherwise. They have not been prepared to on what to do when they are being hunted, pursued or chased. A lot of men are just like sitting duck. They seem to be brought down that easily.
When a lady is experiencing is being pursued by some guy and she is not ready for it, she can even share this with her female friends. Almost as a rule the other ladies will provide her the emotional support in her resistance. They share with her strategies for resisting even better.
But for a man that is being pursued by some lady? His peers will almost as a rule encourage him to be a man and receive what is being offered. Men will help their friends into the problem while women will help their friends out of the problem.
How does this all tie in with increased number of cheating men? For every man who cheats there is a lady cheating with him. So are we seeing more men willing to cheat or are we seeing we seeing more empowered ladies ready to get want they want? After all this is what we have been telling them to do. Unfortunately some of their desires happen to be husbands of their sisters!
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