Top 5 Dos And Don'ts This Valentines Day
If you are one of those people that doesn't find that romance comes easily
, you may know the feeling of dread that can come upon you when Valentines Day is looming. Do you get sweaty palms whilst you try to think of Valentines Day gifts for your loved one, do you fear the reaction you may receive if you get it hopelessly wrong?
Well do not fear, take a deep breath, clear your mind and think about it logically. The most obvious thing to remember is that you must make sure you earmark Valentines Day as a day that must be spent with your Valentine. If you are a guy who has his single mates goading you to go out with them on February 14th, don't even go there! Don't even think about pleasing both your Valentine and your friends by killing two birds with one stone and going out with the boys whilst forcing your Valentine to tag along with you, she will not appreciate that, do, however, let your friends down by explaining how important your relationship with your Valentine is and make alternative arrangements, then take your lady out for a special romantic meal for two.
Even worse would be to forget or not bother about Valentines at all, just a little Valentines gift is sometimes all it takes to let your loved one know you care.
Don't give her money to go out and buy herself something, that couldn't be less romantic, but do buy her a bunch of flowers and a special bottle of bubbly, or go one better and make it a personalised bottle of champagne.
Don't buy Valentines day gifts that you would like yourself, such as something sports related or a racing car experience. If you want to have an exciting day out together then have a more serene experience with a balloon ride or go visit a vineyard for the day. However, if you are a girl buying for a guy then a driving day could be perfect.
If you are a romantic lady (and let's be honest, women are far more romantic than men) and if your guy is a bit of a macho man and finds it hard to show his softer side, you may want to be careful when giving him soppy Valentines gifts. Love Hearts and cuddly toys will probably make him feel like running, so perhaps something more saucy such as presenting yourself wearing nothing but a big red bow would be more appropriate and at the same time may boost his ego by making him feel special that you have made such an effort. Macho men often prefer to keep Valentines presents private as they don't like their mates to know what has been bought for them, so giving yourself as a gift couldn't be more perfect.
Cook your Valentine their favourite meal, then for dessert open up a special box of Valentines chocolates, don't go ordering a takeaway and then sit in front of the television all night as if it's just another Saturday night in.
Ladies, let's be honest, you do like to nag now and then, so give him a day off from the ear bending, instead give him a new CD of his favourite music which will be much more pleasant on his ears and put a romantic or sexy message inside the case.
Be careful guys that your Valentines gift does not turn out to be bad taste, for example if you and your lady are getting on in years, don't send a joke gift such as a blow up zimmer frame with a message about trading her in for a younger model, instead give her a present which celebrates the amount of years you have been together and ladies if your man likes to sit on the lavatory for hours reading the paper, yes, you could give him a funny toilet roll with jokes on it that he can read, but maybe if he relishes the romance of Valentines Day give him some love poems to read instead.
Make Valentines Day the opportunity to make the most of expressing your love for your partner, however, let us not forget that you can and should show your love for that someone everyday of the year, not just the once. Valentines Day should be a chance to celebrate your relationship and guys, if you have a proposal in mind what better day to choose to make it. Remember! Be romantic, be tasteful and be loving.
by: John Smith
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