Single Parents Dating: Breaking The Bad Relationship Habits
There are no perfect relationships since there are no perfect people to support it
. Many relationships still thrive even with the differences, but many times it becomes unhealthy and becomes a habit. You might be too jealous or too clingy, is a bad habit forming? Or has it already formed?
Some times, things like this happened for a reason; often times, it's like a part of our routine already. We know that it is not right and we now that it's destructive. We are the victims of our own doings, of our own destructive habits. It shouldn't be that way, it's not inevitable, you can still change and break it. It may take time to change and break all these bad relationship habits that you have formed, but it's not impossible. Here are some tips to help you out.
1. Recognize your bad habit. If you want to change something, you have to at least acknowledge it's presence. You have to own up your flaws. Are you too jealous? Then own it. Owning your flaws is not a weakness, there is nothing wrong with it. Be more mature, instead of blaming your partner for your actions, you have to admit it yourself. By admitting your problems, it is your first step in solving it.
2. Understand the root of the habit. This is more personal, you have to go soul-searching to find the answers yourself. What makes you too jealous? Why are you too clingy? Why is it that you can't stick to one partner? You have to confront this yourself. Maybe you grew up in an environment which made you feel insecure about yourself. Maybe some experience from your past relationship caused you to change. Maybe you have felt so emotionally deprived and withdrawn that just seeing your partner with others ignite that flame? You will probably know the reason, the root of your problem. Maybe you already know it but won't admit it. You just have to work it out- and be honest with yourself. Once you recognise it, understand all the reasons behind it, you can finally rid of it.
3. Break the bad habits slowly. Change will not come overnight, it doesn't happen instantly. If you want to start and break the habit then do it now, do it slowly. It can be an uneasy or painful process for you but you have to make the change. If you are someone who gets jealous easily, too clingy then pause for a while and think rationally. Ask yourself: "Am I being reasonable? What are my expectations?". Men will look at other women, whether you like it or not, whether it was just an innocent glance or not. So, what is your partner like? Set a goal that is reasonable for yourself. If your partner wants to go out with friends, then talk to him or her that you permit it. Perhaps he/she can go out once a week with friends- without you spying on him. On that event, make sure you keep your mind of them, do something fun. Do a hobby, play games, bake, cook, experiment in your makeup- keep busy. You have to deal with it without letting your imagination run lose and get the best of you. Do something good that will make you feel good so that when the come home, you'd be more pleasurable to be with.
Once you learn to handle yourself and confront these bad habits, set some realistic goals for yourself. It's not complicated, you have to handle your most vulnerable emotions and state gently but firmly. You have to be more confident in yourself and in your partner for your relationship to grow. You will see some progress happening.
by: Andrea Carless
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