Relationships - 7 Turnoffs For A Man That You Do Not Know About
Are you turning your guy off without knowing it
? Do you make him want to run? Are you feeling insecure about keeping a man? Here is the truth, men are often turned off by certain behaviors of women. It is also true that he will not communicate this with you. That's my job - a guy giving insider information about how guys think. Here you go: a condensed form of the 7 random turnoffs for men.
1.Mouthy is not pretty. The difference between mouthy and sassy is that mouthy is not just for fun, it is about taking shots, low blows, and proving your point. Mouthy is often the voice of anger or jealousy. Do not belittle your man. Do not bring up his IQ, the size of his belly button, man boobs, or anything about his "stuff."
2.Prideful is appalling. We are talking major turn off. This is the person who cannot take responsibility, ever. She must always be right. She also has too much pride to say "I am sorry." Make him always to blame and he will eventually want you as a part of his past.
3.Bossing is for mothers. You are not his mother. Listen, if you want to act like his mother then do not be surprised that he loses attraction. Who can be attracted to his mother? He wants a partner, companion, lover, but not a mother who tells him what to do.
4.Eating habits are not exhibitions. Noises? No, No, No. Spells pig! Neither use the big mouth swallow. You know, the kind of bite that reveals all of the contents in your mouth. Huge bites with your mouth wide open is a hippo scene on the nature channel. Here is your sign that this has become an issue - he quits taking your butt out in public. Can you say major turn off?
5.Comparing does not make friends. Do you know most men are both jealous and prideful to some extent? Now that you do, then remember that the next time you are tempted to compare him to another man. A really stupid thing to do... Also, why would would you want to compare your man to your dad?
6.Moodiness means misery. He wonders, "who will she be today?" That is not a good thing, by the way. I know that this is a touchy subject. Perhaps your moodiness is followed with a "I ca not help it" response. Ok, it is proven there may be underlying medical causes that create an imbalance. Moodiness then becomes a symptom. That is a difficult circumstance for you. Or maybe it is diet pills. There are medications that help keep the balance. Make sure that has been pursued.
How about a quick insight? Moodiness is also a form of communication. It is an attempt to show your displeasure, even subconsciously at times. So while it may say something is wrong, it never works. Your man will resent it. There are better ways to communicate.
7.Nagging is for the powerless. When you have power, you can make things happen. When you result to nagging, you have done so because you have become powerless in that situation. Nagging pushes people away and never changes behavior. Actually, it often pushes them to even more negative behavior. Stop nagging and come to grips with the issue behind it.
Do not turn you man off and then wonder why he is distant. Think about what you have just read. These are a few of those turn offs that most men have in common...though not in any way exhaustive. Every man has his own buttons. Your mans buttons need to be discovered by you. How do you find his turn off buttons without pushing them? Simple, ask him. Remember, communication is key to any relationship. If you cannot ask him what he dislikes in women, then you have other problems.
by: Jim Cunningham
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