Discover If She Uses You
The same way men just foul around with women's feelings
, women can do the same. It is difficult for a man to be the victim of such a woman, and if you, a man, do not want to pass through sentimental disillusion or embarrassing moments, there are some signs to show you that your girlfriend is just using you. Here is some advice to help you protect yourself and "beat" her using her own "weapons":
1. Do you always say yes?
If the answer is affirmative, it means she takes advantage of you. She keeps you around only because you are there for her, anytime when she gets bored, or because she knows she can have whatever she wants from you. Learn to say "no" from time to time and get an attitude, do not become her puppy. If you want to impress her, you will not succeed by always being in total agreement, but imposing your own points of view.
2. Does she insult you in public?
If the answer to this question is "yes", then she is just using you. Not only that she makes you feel embarrassed in front of your friends, but she also has fun doing it. Every time she tries to do this, simply speak up and her attitude of superiority will vanish instantly.
3. Does she call you only when she needs something?
How often does she call you and for what reason? If you see that she calls you only when she needs your help, it is clear she is using you. Just say "no" every time she tries to do this.
4. She becomes "subtle"
If she is a "materialistic girl", she will ask for things in a subtle way. She will stop in front of a shop window saying how much she wants those shoes; she will also say she can't afford them, because she must pay the rent, telephone and Internet too. In case you don't buy the shoes, there is little chance you see her again
5. She becomes nervous when you talk about the future
If you are in love with her and want a serious relationship, it is natural you think of the future, your future together. When you want to talk about that, she gets nervous and invents all sorts of excuses like: "I don't like talking about what it's going to be" or "let's not make plans in advance". Women use men for different reasons. Maybe they feel bored, want money or status. There are many reasons so men need to be attentive not to end up used, seduced and abandoned.
by: Marius Gherghinescu
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