It's not easy getting back into dating when you are over 40 because you're
a bit out of practice, or then again, maybe you're one of those guys who only ever dated his childhood sweetheart, in which case you never had much practice and you really do need to learn some dating techniques for over 40s.
Forget about the past. That's over and done. Now is the time to move forward and turn yourself into an attractive man that women want to be with.
Women will respond to you if you get the techniques right. In fact you have a lot of advantages over younger guys. You have experience. You have spent many years interacting with all types of people throughout your workplace and you have the confidence and know how that only an older man has. So don't let your age hold you back, all you need to do is fine tune those skills so that you become more attractive to women.
What you mustn't do is bore the pants off a woman by launching into great detail about your previous relationship which went wrong or by talking at great depth about your hobbies or interests. Women don't care if you are divorced but they don't want to feel that you are still in love with your ex or that there could be trouble from her. Talking football or cars may be great with the lads, but honestly the majority of women are not interested in either subject. What you need to do is shut up but don't clam up. Let her do some talking and be a keen and attentive listener. Women love chatting and if she feels she can open up and relate to you then you are well on the way to her becoming interested in you.
Dating techniques are much the same for over 40s as for younger guys. The key is getting women to respond to you. Young girls may come on to you and this is fine. Don't worry about what other people think but be careful not to talk down to the girl and definitely do not try and act as if you were 20 something. You may find you have little in common with young girls but finding out is all part of the fun and you can easily move on to women over 40.
Finally just remember it's a big world out there. Embrace being single and go out and have some fun after all practice makes perfect! For more indepth informaton guaranteed to give you success with women visit Jo Gardner's website.