In an ideal world saying "I do" means forever but in reality increasing numbers of
people over the age of 40 find themselves newly single and desperate for advice to show them the way to approach successful dating for the over 40s. It is very difficult to know where to turn to because people tend to think of the dating scene as belonging to the younger generation and the thought of entering the dating scene at a more mature age is quite daunting and to make that first step can require a lot of courage for most people.
Now guys, my advice to you would be to keep things fairly simple and do not rush into anything. It does not matter that you are losing your hair or that you now have a bit of a paunch. Most women will see beyond those things as long as you make the right first impression.
To be successful at dating when you are over 40 should be a breeze provided you follow a few basic rules:
1.When you are introduced to a woman try and appear confident, even though you may be feeling really nervous and shy inside. Do not forget the woman is probably feeling as insecure as you are.
2.Try and engage her with a pleasant smile and show some enthusiasm for whatever she is talking about. Women like to chat so it is important to listen and try and feedback on what she is telling you.
3.Make sure you put your best foot forward. Shower, shave and dress in clothes that you look and feel good in. Splash on some manly smelling cologne but be careful not to overdo it.
4.Whatever you do, do not come out with any cheesy one liners, as most women are tired of these. Try and think of some original conversation to come out with, such as commenting on the music being played, or how she comes to know someone that you know.
If you are finding it difficult to engage with a particular woman then just move on. Remember there is no rush so take your time and learn to relax around women without always looking at them as potential partners.
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