Can You Get Her Back? 5 Things You Can Do Right Now
Can You Get Her Back? 5 Things You Can Do Right Now
How to get her back? Your heart is breaking with the news that she's moved on without you.
Don't give up. You still have a chance to win her back, starting today.
It's hard to look at the fact that you've made mistakes in the relationship and now you're at a loss when it comes to getting her back.
It's tough realizing that maybe you didn't appreciate her enough when you were with her. She's made the decision to go on and leave you behind. She could even be seeing someone else.
You're at the end of your rope and locked in despair right now.
You want a second chance - a chance to make things right again. You want to get her back.
Here's some no nonsense advice that is going to help you get back with her, from a gal who genuinely wants to help you do just that!
1. Stop blaming yourself. Continuing to blame yourself for the breakup is not the answer. By the same token, neither is driving yourself crazy going over and over the breakup like a broken record in your head.
You have to settle your mind and get hold of yourself before you can make any real progress. It's important you understand the biggest reason why you broke up.
Don't rush this part - what is the one most predominant reason why you aren't together right now?
Believe it or not, it doesn't have to do with her finding someone else, if she was truly in love with you.
There's a great chance that she still loves you, even if you committed some mistakes that made her run the other way.
2. Agree with the breakup for now. This is one of the most important things you need to do before any real progress can be made.
Let her know you understand- that you both need time away from each other to figure out what happened in your relationship. If you disagree with her you'll be on the opposite side of the fence and the last thing you want is to be at odds with her.
This is a crucial step toward getting her back. Without even having to come right out and say it, you're admitting that there are problems and that the old relationship was broken.
You may think it's nuts, agreeing with her about this breakup. You might think it's the biggest mistake she could ever make...but whatever you do, don't let her know.
Just go with it for now because it's going to relieve the stress and anxiety built up in both of you and get you both on the same page - standing on common ground. Make sense?
3. Be willing to change. Once you're clear about your part, when it comes to the reason why she broke it off with you, you have to be willing to change your behavior.
If you aren't willing to change, then how can any real progress be made?
Sure, she might agree to taking you back for now, but if you don't change and things start to go south again...well, you can imagine what happens next? She's going to leave again - and that's what you want to avoid, right?
So yes, real change has to start with you first - taking an honest look at yourself, forgiving yourself for any mistakes and being clear on how you are going to not make the same mistakes again.
For example, maybe you were taking her for granted? Maybe she felt under-appreciated or not listened to? Make a promise to yourself that you'll hear her out and give her the attention and focus she needs and deserves.
Learn to pay attention to her needs, too because you'll get her back faster if you do.
4. Be the guy she fell in love with. Relax for a moment and think about how it was when you first started dating.
When you first fell in love. Once you re-discover that man inside you that she loves, she's going to know.
She's just going to know, down deep and understand that you've changed for the best.
5. Let her miss you for awhile. It's OK to take some time to do the work you need to do before contacting your ex again.
This is the time when you need to have "no contact" with her - when you are moving forward to create the new and better you. Once you do decide to reach out to her, be sure you're feeling good inside.
Because you've made the steps to change for the better and be the man she loved to begin with, without the problems and conflicts, you're going to have your confidence back.
Now you're on the right track - you can take that first step and crack the door open again to get her back, once and for all.
Start slowly...give her a chance to know you - the real you again - the guy she loves down deep. She may need more time to think. If she does, don't be afraid to grant her more time.
You can greatly increase your chances and get her back with the right strategies and know how.
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