You can be left in a mentally saddened state of mind or clueless about the next move. You might even be tempted to call your ex back begging for a second chance, but the world doesn't work in this manner. Trying to get him or her back may involve a lot of work but the smart moves can be speed up the whole process. How you feel about the break up can easily affect your next move. Do you feel like talking to your ex? Don't do it. Do you feel like hiding in a closet crying yourself to sleep? Don't do that either. I'd rather show you these 3 simple steps and use them so you have the answer to the question "How do I get my ex back?"
Step 1. How To Get Your Ex Back-Without The Break up!
Before we begin, you would have accept that the break up is real and not a fairy tale. Just tell your ex that your okay with breaking up at the moment and this will start the "moving on" process which is a vital part of chances of reconnecting with your ex. Usually instead of moving forward, anger and frustration tends to build up and restricts them from that process. Your ex won't be clear-minded enough to think about the relationship. This gives you and your ex some "thinking time". During this time the feelings should develop and he or she will contact you to let explain their feelings.
Step 2. Give Them Some Space!
After the first contact, don't attempt to call or have any contact with your ex. Let their be some "thinking time" between you and your ex. It might be counter-intuitive, but by not communicating you are showing that you have already moved on and your okay. In the first step you told your ex in words but make a move. This is the action part. This will give your ex time to reminisce and think about the value of the relationship. It will also allow them to start missing your physical presence. Separating yourself can calm you down and is the right moment of time to let them know how important you was to them.
Step 3. Plan A Date
Once you completed those 2 steps an arrangement can be made where the two of you can meet up somewhere peaceful and talk about your future with your ex. The conversation should be thought beforehand and the right things should be said to see if your ex has any feelings for you. "How to get my ex back?" This can be a little more complicated than these 3 steps.