Valentines Day is a special day for any couple. After all, it is the most romantic day of the year. It is particularly special if it's your very first Valentines Day together as a couple. However, buying gifts is tricky. Expectations are high and you have only just recovered from the traumas of buying presents for your very first Christmas together. Don't worry as there are lots of options out there to make the first Valentines Day a perfect...more
Valentines Day is typically aimed at women, indulging their romantic sides and desires for a fairy-tale ending. For men, the event is typically a reason for them to give rather than take, even if ultimately they tend to cross their fingers for a bit of a reward for good behaviour at the end of the night. Often it is left to them to book a nice restaurant, come up with thoughtful gifts and shower their girlfriend or wife with love and affection,...more
How to Get Overdraft Fees Taken Off We've all done it at least once - opened up our online banking portal on the Web and spotted an overdraft fee on our statement. Whether it's $20, $30 or more, an overdraft fee showing up on the online statement is never a welcome sight.An overdraft is charged anytime you make transactions against your account in an amount that exceeds your current balance. Obviously, in order to pay the merchant or individual to whom you authorized the payment via your debit card, credit card, or personal check, your bank needs to be able to withdraw those funds from your account. When the funds aren't there, they are not happy.If you are enrolled in an overdraft protection program - and chances are good that you are - your bank will pay on your behalf the merchant or individual to whom the payment was authorized. This is a bit like their giving you an automatic, short-term loan. Of course, their loan fee - the overdraft fee - is quite high. Most large national banks now charge $30 or more for the privilege of their covering your overdraft for a few days.Having to pay up to one overdraft fee per month might be bearable, but it is quite possible to incur...more
Moving on After a Breakup - 5 Steps That Will Help You on Your Way It stings. You cannot stop thinking about it. The feeling of rejection and loneliness. It can be very difficult moving on after a sudden breakup. Just about everyone has experienced the terrible hurt that comes with it. You may be asking yourself "Where do I go from here?"...more
Every year, Valentines Day would be the busy moment for many people to prepare gifts. It is wise to pick up the right leather bags. Girls would get lost in the dreamy world of colorful leather bags if you do not want to send her traditional ideals of flowers. This year would be tough time for me to go through. Not long before the coming of...more
How Long Does It Take My Spouse To Get Over An Affair If you ask married couples what would be the most difficult challenge a couple would face, they'll probably tell you "getting over an affair". Counselors are approached all the times by couples wanting advice on how to save their marriage after a spouse has had an affair. The answer is complex, and both partners in the couple are going to have "homework" to do before the damage caused by an affair can begin to heal.For the spouse that did the cheating, they're going to have to put aside their feelings for the person they cheated with. If they've already done that, they're going to have to forgive themselves. Yes, they did something horrible; however, if they don't get past their guilt and self-loathing, they're not going to be able to move out of the negative and into the positive. They shouldn't deny what they've done, or the seriousness of it, but accepting responsibility doesn't mean wallowing in self-pity and blame.For the spouse that was cheated on, you need to grieve. The pain that you've been hit with is undeniable, and you need time to feel it and process it before you can begin to heal. Sublimating the hurt will...more
How To Get Over A Husband Cheating The worst thing that a wife can be faced with is the fact that her husband is having, or had, an affair. She wonders how, in the world, she can ever get past this betrayal. She wants to know how she can trust...more
How Long Will It Take To Get Over An Affair? If counselors had a dime for every time they were asked that question, they'd be wealthy beyond imagining. It's understandable, though, why folks want the answer. They want to know how long they're...more
Love is the most graceful feeling in this whole world. When a person falls in love, he sees everything around him more beautiful and elegant. However, due to busy schedule or pressure of the professional world often couples do not get time to express...more
Alright, you had "the" talk. You knew it was coming sooner or later. The silence was unbearable. And now that its over you dont know whether to cry or be relieved. You just became a casualty of an relationship gone bad. You're wondering how to deal...more
Love is in the air now as 14 February is round the corner. Valentine's Day is the day of love and romance. It is the day two people celebrate their union and togetherness. This valentine's day make sure you get your lady love something unique and...more
Dealing with Breakup In this article, I'm heading to talk about dealing with break up. One particular issue I get a lot from my past students is they actually have a deep feeling for a bit closure when it comes to their ex. They would like to...more