Jealousy is harmful and such behavior can be self-destructive and irrational to your mental and emotional health. It can also ruin your relationship. You should not be comparing yourself to his ex. It's time to work these issues out right now so that you can move on and focus on building your relationship.Get rid of those negative thoughts and questions. Was she prettier? Was she was a better cook? You probably don't cook at...more
You've heard many people warn their friends or loved ones "Once a cheater, always a cheater," or "He/she will never change." I have always subscribed to those notions as well, but I decided to delve a little bit deeper into the topic of cheating and people who have affairs, for the purpose of this article and to figure out where the evidence actually points. According to relationship expert Dr. Gilda Carle, who's book, How to Win...more
A change is as good a rest, or so they say. (Whoever "They" are, but "They" get around.) If you'd like a rest from what you've been going through emotionally of late, maybe it's time to consider making some more changes in your life. Learning how to get over a break up can be done piece by piece.So let's address the down days. The days that have you feeling sad for no good reason, apart from the things you've had to deal with. Let me make it clear - I don't mean clinical depression - I'm not qualified to advise you on that, so for professional advice about that topic you need to speak with your physician or GP. The ones I'm referring to are the days that you spend feeling listless, nostalgic and need a distraction. The secret to breaking this state is to interupt it's routine by changing something.Let's start with making some changes in the area of reminders of her. The things we're interested in fall into two distinct groups:"Stuff" like photographs, ornaments, presents"Channels" like facebook, speed-dial, phonebook memory space, the places you hang out at online.I'm going to challenge you to make some changes in these areas, if you're serious about how to get over a break up. Go...more
We've all seen the movies where students worry about a big test, decide to buck the system, and create elaborate schemes to pass without putting in the effort of studying. From stealing tests, writing answers on gum wrappers, to re-printing labels on coke bottles with the information filled in; we've all seen. I'm sure we've all thought about it,...more
If the relationship has ended you need to admit this. Choose from more than one way to go about this. Go forward with your life when you choose the best way to get over any breakup. Various Ways to Get Over a Breakup Too often people involved in a breakup think that it is very easy to move on with someone else. These thoughts usually come from...more
Anytime there is a breakup in a relationship, there are five stages that each party goes through. Recovery is easier with the knowledge of what is involved in each stage. Stage 1 C AcknowledgmentYou need to realize that the relationship has ended. Explore the why later and focus on realizing that it is reality. Many feelings are swirling through you including feeling completely lost. You need to be fully aware of your emotions. Facing the fact that you are having these feelings is more important than why. There is joy around you though you do not feel it. Try to focus on it. Discover how healing exercise can be. You can walk before work, during lunch, or after dinner. A new hobby or craft might be a good idea. Your loved ones might benefit from some quality time. Focus your mind on positive things with activities that lift you up. Stage 2 C Let it OutRelief from what is pulling you down is the second of the five stages of a break up. You are not helping yourself physically or emotionally by not letting your feelings out. Relying on a caring friend or relative to share the hurt, following a breakup, can be a wise strategy. Another option, if you do not have anyone in your life to...more
It's been said that the shortest time in the world is when the lights change from red to green on a New York City Traffic light. That must mean that the longest time starts when she tells you it's finished to when you finally meet someone new. That's...more
There are certain break up mistakes that woman make which push men away. Find out what you may be doing wrong - don't make these break up mistakes and you can have your guy begging you for commitment.If you have been dumped you are...more
The following five breakup guidance tips have assisted many to get over the pain of breaking up. When you are on the receiving end and there doesn't seem any likelihood of getting back the relationship, then conquering the discomfort is...more
When all the drama has ended and you realize that you need her in your life, what do you do to get your wife back? What happened to your relationship might seem irreparable, but there are steps to win her back. Remember that it is not impossible; you...more
Sometimes it can be hard to get over your ex. Maybe you are the one who got broke up with or maybe you are the one that initiated the break up for whatever reason even though you still cared about them as a person. It can be hard to move on from a...more
You have been dating for a while now and you are starting to question the relationship. The relationship is not as strong as it used to be and you are starting to wonder if you should just break up and move on with your life. Here are 3 reasons why...more