Look appealingFirst things first, you have to look good otherwise why would she find you attractive enough to go out in a date with you? So, spruce up your wardrobe and wear clean and stylish clothes.Get some info on herIf she is a girl from work then try to get some information on her from your colleagues. If you have met through some common friends then talk to them to get an idea about her likes and dislikes. This will make sure that you don't...more
Ooze confidenceFor her to take notice of you, you will have to be very confident. Why would she go out with a guy who is a wimp? So, work on your confidence and be absolutely self assured when you are around her.Be the leaderYou will fade in the background if you are not the leader. It is only leaders who get noticed and it is only leaders who get all the popular girls. Dunk the notion of being in the herd and following a pattern. Set your own...more
Announce to the world about your loveProudly change your status from being 'single' to being 'engaged' on all the social networking sites that you have a presence on. Upload the latest picture of your girlfriend and you. Let the world know that you two are now a couple. Also write a few flattering lines about your girl on the site.Talk fondly about herWhenever you meet mutual friends or family members speak very fondly about your lady love and tell them how blessed you feel that she is a part of your life. You not only have to tell her but also tell her friends and acquaintances that you treasure the relationship.Leave love notes for herLeave cute messages for her in places she does not expect. Under the pillow or in her purse or in a book that she is reading or any other place she least expects. This will bring a smile to her face when she reads your message.Whisk her away for a vacationMake a terrific plan all by yourself and when she is stressed with work or studies whisk her away to some destination that will offer her peace and tranquility. You can take her to the ski resort or a cruise however; keep it a secret till the last minute.Give her a gift on 'Woman's Day'Surprise...more
EntertainmentOne of the easiest and breeziest topics to have a conversation on is entertainment. Different forms of music, favorite movies, theatre, concerts to television, you have a whole lot that you can choose from. These conversations can be light and fun and can help you identify what sort of a person she is.TravellingTalking about travelling...more
Laugh at yourselfYou could talk about the embarrassingly funny incident on your way to work, funny stories from your childhood or mad college stories. Having a self deprecating sense of humor seems very charming as it makes you look like a man child. Don't go on an overdose though. You don't want her to alter the good impression that she has formed...more
Be visibleDon't fade away into the background. Make sure that you are a visible person and not the wall paper. Looking good is one way of getting noticed so suit up and head out.Don't try to ape someoneTrying to ape or imitate someone is not going to take you anywhere. It is simply going to make you look insecure and fake and we want to avoid both these talents while trying to get a girl interested. Learn to be self assured and comfortable being the person that you are and you will surely be appreciated.Keep your body language positiveIf you are a confidant person it will have to reflect in your body language. Keep your body language open and inviting. Maintain eye contact sit or stand in a relaxed manner.Have a good sense of humorHaving a good sense of humor makes a girl feel like you are an interesting person. Humor keeps conversations engaging, light and fun. So brace yourself and prepare to be funny. Not Bozo the clown funny, but intelligent funny.Compliment herYou also have to compliment her to get her to be interested in you. Make sure that you pass the run of the mill compliments and get a little creative with your compliments. Use your creativity even if you are stating the...more
Don't get psyched by her looksSo she's hot! So what? Treat her as you would treat any other girl. You like her and should make a play for her. Don't be afraid of being rejected by her. Be confident of your self and make every minute with her...more
Be noticedYou don't have to do something ridiculous to be noticed, but you can work on yourself to have "presence" and style. Girls automatically check out guys who stand out looking smart. Get clothes that suit you and sport a hairstyle that's...more
Today young men don't want to follow the traditional styles and ways of asking a girl out. They know that the more original and creative they are, the more chances they have of the girl agreeing to go out with them. Take a look at these cute ways you...more
Show your interest from a distance Even before you approach that special girl, make it a point to show your interest from a distance. Look at her with your warm eyes without making it look cheap. If she does look towards you then make sure that your...more
Have a confidant approachYour approach has to be confidant. If she sees that you are dilly dallying or hemming and hawing even for a moment then you can wave the date good bye. Come across as a self assured person and your chances of getting a date...more
The right amount of eye contactWhen you spot the girl that you like, make brief eye contact...look at her directly and hold her gaze and then release it. Make sure that you don't look away too soon or stare for too long. Once you have caught her eye...more