Valentines Day is typically aimed at women, indulging their romantic sides and desires for a fairy-tale ending. For men, the event is typically a reason for them to give rather than take, even if ultimately they tend to cross their fingers for a bit of a reward for good behaviour at the end of the night. Often it is left to them to book a nice restaurant, come up with thoughtful gifts and shower their girlfriend or wife with love and affection,...more
How to Get Overdraft Fees Taken Off We've all done it at least once - opened up our online banking portal on the Web and spotted an overdraft fee on our statement. Whether it's $20, $30 or more, an overdraft fee showing up on the online statement is never a welcome sight.An overdraft is charged anytime you make transactions against your account in an amount that exceeds your current balance. Obviously, in order to pay the merchant or...more
Moving on After a Breakup - 5 Steps That Will Help You on Your Way It stings. You cannot stop thinking about it. The feeling of rejection and loneliness. It can be very difficult moving on after a sudden breakup. Just about everyone has experienced the terrible hurt that comes with it. You may be asking yourself "Where do I go from here?" You could also be thinking "What do I do next?" Well, first and foremost, you need some time to recover and as you read further, you will find steps that will help you in moving on after a breakup.Accept what happened It is quite common to find yourself having a "pity party", taking on a "woe is me" type of attitude. Get over it. Sitting there playing mental gymnastics and thinking to yourself "what-if" will do nothing to fix the problem. Accept what happened and move forward. You cannot change the past.Take Time Apart It is quite common for you to find yourself wanting to get back with your ex. It is a very natural reaction. If indeed you are finding yourself in that mindset, you need to take this important step and give your ex space. Yes, this can indeed be difficult, but aggressively contacting them often times has the opposite effect...more
Every year, Valentines Day would be the busy moment for many people to prepare gifts. It is wise to pick up the right leather bags. Girls would get lost in the dreamy world of colorful leather bags if you do not want to send her traditional ideals of flowers. This year would be tough time for me to go through. Not long before the coming of...more
How Long Does It Take My Spouse To Get Over An Affair If you ask married couples what would be the most difficult challenge a couple would face, they'll probably tell you "getting over an affair". Counselors are approached all the times by couples wanting advice on how to save their marriage after a spouse has had an affair. The answer is...more
How To Get Over A Husband Cheating The worst thing that a wife can be faced with is the fact that her husband is having, or had, an affair. She wonders how, in the world, she can ever get past this betrayal. She wants to know how she can trust her husband again, and how she can stop running that movie she's got, of her husband and the other woman, in her head. While it will take a lot of work, it is possible to get over a husband cheating.To get over this kind of betrayal, the first thing that a woman needs to know is that she's being heard and understood. She needs to have her fears and feelings validated. In addition, she needs to hear her husband. All too often, couples dealing with the aftermath of an affair get caught in the vicious cycle of "my husband acts like it's my fault he had an affair" and "I feel horrible that I cheated on my wife, but I don't know how to fix things". While very natural and very normal, this isn't going to do anyone any good.As a wife, be sure that your husband takes responsibility for his affair. It doesn't matter what he felt you had done to him: ignored him, nagged him, whatever. Ultimately, he chose to have the affair, and that...more
How Long Will It Take To Get Over An Affair? If counselors had a dime for every time they were asked that question, they'd be wealthy beyond imagining. It's understandable, though, why folks want the answer. They want to know how long they're...more
Love is the most graceful feeling in this whole world. When a person falls in love, he sees everything around him more beautiful and elegant. However, due to busy schedule or pressure of the professional world often couples do not get time to express...more
Alright, you had "the" talk. You knew it was coming sooner or later. The silence was unbearable. And now that its over you dont know whether to cry or be relieved. You just became a casualty of an relationship gone bad. You're wondering how to deal...more
Love is in the air now as 14 February is round the corner. Valentine's Day is the day of love and romance. It is the day two people celebrate their union and togetherness. This valentine's day make sure you get your lady love something unique and...more
Dealing with Breakup In this article, I'm heading to talk about dealing with break up. One particular issue I get a lot from my past students is they actually have a deep feeling for a bit closure when it comes to their ex. They would like to...more
How To Get Him Back After Your Break Up - Getting Him To Want You More Than Ever I suppose that if you are reading this article you might be finding it difficult to make it through every day right after your break up.This can be a difficult...more