Unplanned Pregnancy
Pregnancy has a funny way of showing up right when it's least expected
. Unplanned pregnancies can cause a lot of stress, worry, fear, and uncertainty for both mother and father. It doesn't necessarily mean that the pregnancy is not welcomed, but rather that the parents are unprepared and not ready to take on the responsibility of caring for a child.
Although you may be scared, seeking out a counselor or religious clergy may help you talk out your feelings. A counselor can provide non-judgmental support and information about your options. Reading pregnancy books can also help you know what to expect as your body changes during this period. Although nine months is a very small fraction of your life, this time will be life changing, and a baby can provide happiness for many involved. If your parents or significant other is not supportive, there are many around you that can provide the help you need at this time.
Unplanned pregnancy poses one of the most devastating problems in life. There is just too much stress to deal with for a teenage mom. The stress that they're dealing with are time, financial and duties. Imagine the difficulty in juggling the time spent in school, with the baby and earning money just to provide necessities for the baby.
After you have had time to think about things and to collect yourself, you may want to get some counsel from friends, family or maybe a minister. Find someone that you know will be supportive of your decision to confide in. You need to have support during this time. You don't want to be surrounded by people that are going to beat you down for your mistake or pressure you into doing what they want. Surround yourself with a support group. If you have no one to turn to you can seek help from support groups geared for this situation.
One of the best ways you could do this would be to make a special time together to have their full attention and communication. Make sure cell phones and ipods are left home, or if you are home not near your teen. Be open to hear whatever your teen may share with you insofar as their knowledge of these topics. You may be surprised to hear they know more than you think.
Speaking with a counselor may be a good option because it allows you to speak with an uninvolved party; you will be able to receive unbiased support and information regarding your options. Read pregnancy books and research the pregnancy process so you will know what to expect as your body changes during the nine months and how to properly take care of yourself and your baby.
Children are unique and each child's needs are different. Parents satisfy their child's needs and fulfill them according to their abilities and resources available. Raising a child as a single parent is a great responsibility--the task cannot be accomplished without a strong support network of friends, family, or support agencies. Whatever your decision, remember only you can make it workable and successful.
by: laura jane
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