Talking To Girls - Three Ways To Start Your Conversation
The most important aspect of picking up girls is your ability to talk with girls
, because when your talking with women it is when you connect with them. When you are able to successfully connect with a girl during your conversation, she will find you very attractive.
When you're talking to girls, be positive, be optimistic, be excited about what she's doing, and where she's going in her life. After you smile at her, introduce yourself, then you can start with three places or questions.
1. Where are you from?
2. What do you do for work?
3. Are you in school?
Naturally there are other questions you can begin a conversation with, however these are the three places I usually start. Let's use an example:
You have approached a pretty girl, smiled at her, introduced yourself, and asked her where she is from? She responds with "I just moved out here" then you can say "really how do you like it, where did you move from, do you like it here, what brought you out here?"
What if instead she says "I've lived here all my life" then your response could be "wow, that's awesome, is your family out here, what are you doing for work " The point is simply when you ask a question, people often respond with giving you additional information to ask follow up questions and further the conversation.
For example if you ask her what she is doing with work and she says she is a Librarian, you can then ask her what got her interested in that profession, how she likes it, where she went to school, and endless possibilities.
As you see the answer to one question gives you material for four more questions, and then the answer to a second question gives you material for another four questions and the possibilities of directions to take this conversation are easily 256 different directions! All from just two answers to your questions.
Typically you should ask two to four questions and then answer your own questions. You do this for two reasons:
1. When answering your own questions you are sharing yourself with her. This way she gets to know you while you are getting to know her.
2. It avoids her feeling like she is being interviewed! Instead when you answer your own questions she will really feel like she is getting to know about who you are!
The whole idea of getting to know somebody is asking about them, and people enjoy talking about themselves. Clearly you should ask women about them-self, who they are, what they do for work, their family
Dale Carnegie the author of "How To Win Friends and Influence People" offers some great insight into creating this connection with women, I encourage you to read it. The conversation and connection with women is what is going to separate you from all the other men.
This is how you get to know girls and she gets to know you, and where you can really build the attraction between the two of you. Your ability to have an engaging conversation with girls will directly correlate with your ability to attract girls!
by: Willis Combse
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