Opening The Vault On Men Seeking Women
Men have been, for ages, trying to understand the female mind and what it would take to be the ideal man for the majority of women
. Millions of books and other media have been sold to address this very idea in the hopes that some useful hints will be discovered in finding the key to female mind.
Unfortunately, there is no single key to such a discovery. There exists no perfect ideal man that would cause any woman he met to fall head over heels within seconds. No secret code of behavior can be passed on from male to male to gain the power to woo women in mass.
The problem that most men face isn't that they can't seem to understand women; it's that they are looking for an easy way to gain access. Many men refuse to adopt some of the most basic fundamentals in order to become more appealing to the opposite sex and this continues to block their progress.
The first priority in courtship is to know what you're looking for. If a long term relationship is in the works then you must adopt one kind of attitude and if you're only looking for a few nights of passion, another.
Using some of the tricks or psychological traps that some recommend for "getting" women may be affective from time to time, but if using deception and misdirection is the only way you know how to gain the favor of a lady, you're time maybe running out. Despite popular belief, many men do not have to resort to such measures to attract women and for those that do; it might be time to change your game.
Once you understand what you hope to gain by forming a relationship (of any kind,) with a woman you can apply various techniques to accomplish your goal. The two main priorities of these strategies being: Letting the woman know what you're looking for and finding a woman, or women, that want similar things.
Single and Loving It:
For those men that have no interest in settling down the dating scene holds a world of possibilities. From dimly lit dance clubs to the best online dating communities many single women are available and looking to have fun.
The idea that women are only interested in getting married or some other form of attachment is less true today than it perhaps ever was. Millions of women have busy, full lives and feel no desire what so ever to settle at this point in their lives. The idea here is to find women who share your point of view and there are many of them out there.
Some key elements in getting yourself connected with women who are looking to have a good time without strings can really cut down on your wasting time:
* Location: Clubs, bars and local singles gatherings and a host of places that encourage flirting online or sexy hook ups are a great place to start. From here you can begin by seeking out women that seem to be like-minded and then perhaps make your time more private. Some of the best places to go on a date when just looking for a good time are those that reflect your free spirited attitude; avoid anything that may send the wrong message by feeling too serious.
* Style: If your ultimate desire is to get physical with a woman your appearance should reflect this. Poor grooming or dressing habits doesn't carry a lot of weight in a group that isn't going to look too deeply into your mind. It may seem shallow, but because of the nature of your goal, you only have your appearance and a few well chosen words to work with.
* Strategy: Many women associate sex with some form of romance and many men tend to forget that simply because they tend to separate emotion from the physical act. It is important to keep in mind that a woman's ideal fantasy for a physical experience and man's may often differ. Don't be afraid to incorporate a little romance into your style simply because you aren't looking for a serious relationship. Some of the best romantic pick up lines will do more to get your lady friend in the mood than any other strategy you can think of.
Relationship Bound:
For those gents that would like to find the lady of their dreams it is every bit as important to get your point across from the get go. While popping the question on the first date might not be recommended, letting a woman know that you have interest in a future together can be very appealing.
Many men in his position might find that the pressure is even greater than those who are simply looking for some physical satisfaction. While on one hand a nice look and a fun attitude can achieve the goal, the serious romantic has a great deal more to accomplish with love and lust.
* Apparent in Appearance: Though there is certainly no defined look for any person looking to enter into a relationship, a style that screams immaturity may not help you in your quest. Poor hygiene is also a serious detraction from a look that is supposed to be sending out signals of dependability. Keeping your look clean and within a reasonable amount of the norm may improve your chances for being taken seriously.
* Opening Lines: Though you still want to present your perspective romances with a fun and frisky attitude, going too far in that direction may send off some warning bells; remember that cheesy come-on lines and too forward introductions are not usually the best way to win a woman's heart.
* Winning Her Over: In truth you will either mesh well with a woman or not, there is no way to tell whether or not love is in the air until you've laid the groundwork, but there are definitely some key elements that may help get to the good stuff at a faster pace. Letting her know your plans for the future and that you hope to include a special lady in them is wonderfully romantic way to let her know that you are looking for that right person. Helping her to understand that you know that a relationship can mean work and struggle and that you're not afraid of these things is also an attractive attribute.
Though no two women may be exactly the same, some of the age-old general advice is still very true today and may prove useful when it comes to winning the affections of a lady:
* Compliment the effort she puts into her appearance. Young or old, heavy or thin many women work very hard to try and take care of the way they look, especially when trying to impress someone they like or love. Letting her know that you appreciate this extra effort she puts in can win you big points at any stage of the relationship.
* Though not all women appreciate the classic romantic ideas many have at least some version of what moves them. Find out what makes your sweetheart's heart thump and knees go weak and it is likely she will lavish you with affection. Ignoring the ideas and sentiments of her heart will often lead to a lack of interest in anything she perceives as romantic.
This often hurts most men in the bedroom where the lack of attention is extremely noticeable. Something as simple as watching a movie that really speaks to her on an emotional and physical level might be the key to igniting that romance for the first time, or keeping it going after years.
* For years many men have joked about woman's ability to chatter on and though many men are just as guilty of having this trait, for some reason it seems to have been designated as a female one. Though you may not always feel that the topic is one of your greatest interest paying attention and getting involved in what makes your lady tick is an essential to keeping her happy. Most women want to feel loved and adored if they choose a partner and avoiding her thoughts doesn't exactly scream "I love you."
However you choose to seek out a woman and for whatever reason you choose, remember that the bottom line of getting a woman's attention is giving her the respect she deserves. Whether a night of passion or wedding bells are what you're looking for offering her up an honest offer of companionship will usually go a lot further than trying to play mind games and avoid any real work. Though some men would avoid this tactic at all costs, those who are truly brave and confident often find that women respond best to simple respect and a direct approach.
by: Addison Kross
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