To become more confident in day to day life it helps to develop a bit of a charismatic personality to help you along. Are people born with this quality or can it be acquired? The answer is yes it can be and I am going to show you some tricks to help you come off as more charismatic
Have a Firm handshake- This may seem stupid but a firm handshake can leave a lasting impression on people and a weak one can leave just as big of an impression as well.
Don't Look Away- Look at people right into the center of their eye when you are talking to them, this is an easy trick to convey lots of confidence and create a lot more respect then simply looking around the room and being awkward.
Don't Be Afraid to Express Yourself- A reserved person is not a charismatic person by nature. If you sit there and hide your feelings and never have anything to say or any emotion to say it with then people will never ever see you as charismatic. Being shy is not excuse for not talking and interacting with people in an emotional way. Being mature is overcoming your shyness and not using it as an excuse.
Laugh- Don't be afraid to be humorous and smile and laugh. Many people will feel uncomfortable in social situations and make some kind of half laugh that is intensely awkward. Treat strangers like friends and be casual and laugh with them and you will make them extremely comfortable with you which will lead you to have more friends that respect you.
Compliment People- This is huge, a guy that can compliment people is secure and it is one of the best qualities you can have. In a world where most people are cold and trying to do their own thing, getting a compliment from someone immediately creates an extremely positive image of you in their eyes. Say their name in the compliment to really make it personal.
Radiate Energy- A charismatic person is like a little nuclear factory. Think about how people who have energy are different then others. Nobody wants to be with the guy who always has to take naps or is always to tired to do things, insert a little energy into your daily routine and you will be surprised with the effects. You should be excited about taking this new step to your charismatic self. Not to mention how much closer you can get to your goals when you have that extra bit of energy.
So there you have it, my keys to being charismatic and I hope you can use them and implement them into your day to day life and make the improvements your looking for. Don't be afraid to be enthusiastic about what you are doing or about what other people are doing, just focus on radiating energy.