Asking A Girl Out - 2 Major Pitfalls To Avoid
Asking A Girl Out - 2 Major Pitfalls To Avoid
There's a right way of asking a girl out ... and a wrong way. The trouble is that too many guys go about it the wrong way, and allow impatience and the natural fear of rejection to foul it up for them.
Let's have a look at these two factors and see how to avoid them.
1. Impatience
It's human nature to be impatient. Impatience has its good points - it drives us on to achieve things more quickly in some cases, but when it comes to asking a girl out, there has to be a certain amount of interaction between the two of you first.
This could be anything - exchanging smiles and a bit of flirting, perhaps, or maybe simply speaking on matters of mutual concern from time to time.
Sooner or later you'll be able to gauge whether she likes you enough to agree to a date. In the meantime, you'll probably find out if she already has a boyfriend, what kind of guys she likes (and whether you fit in to that category) and a lot of other useful things as well.
But if you're too impatient to get a date with her then you may well be undermining your chances. Look at it from her viewpoint. Even if she likes you she may not want to date you. And even if she would be willing to date you then she most probably won't want to give you the impression she's a pushover.
So work on getting to a situation where you can ask her out as a natural "next step". You'll have a much greater chance of her agreeing to it.
2. Fear of rejection
Why should she reject you?
Mainly because she just doesn't feel comfortable about the idea, or that she feels you've asked her before getting to know her a little (which comes back to the impatience factor).
She'll almost certainly accept if you have shown her that you can enhance her life a little, for example by being able to make her laugh and enjoy herself.
The possibility of her turning you down should recede the more you get to know her, as long as your relationship is going well.
But if you come on strong and too soon, trying to get physical before she's ready, then she'll be in the position of trying to cool the relationship, and she's not going to do that by agreeing to a date with you.
Now this is important, and it relates to both the impatience and fear of rejection factors. You have to let it happen entirely naturally. That really is the only way to date women.
If you try to force events then it probably won't work. For example, don't go too far out of your way to stage an "accidental" encounter. Just persevere at being around when she's around - nothing more than that. Your opportunity will present itself when you're both ready.
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