How To Make Your Wedding Night Special
The first wedding nights were highly regarded in past generations
, this is because that was the time that the bride and groom were officially allowed to have sex under the confine of their marriage. The significance of premarital sex has since changed considerably, and these days it's hard to find newly weds who're engaging in their very first act of sexual intercourse on their wedding night.
That's said, it doesn't mean that the "first encounter" shouldn't be special. You may not put so much weight on the "first encounter" but possibility abounds that your bride does, therefore, you should strive to ensure that you make it unforgettable for both of you. The reason for this is because a special first encounter will definitely set pace for your future sex life as a married couple. Below are some good suggestions on how to make the "first night" blissful.
Abstain from pre-wedding sex
It's possible that you've already devoured the "forbidden fruit" prior to your wedding, but that shouldn't prevent you from creating a new kind of anticipation that is not present in your daily sex life for the special occasion. To do this, abstain from sex for a certain period of time to your wedding, doing this allows for the build-up of desire for each other until the wedding night.
This period of abstinence should vary between couples and be dictated by the frequency of your sexual encounter; a practical formula is to abstain from sex two times longer than your normal schedule, for instance, if you have sex once a week, abstain for two weeks. To increase the expectation you can as well adopt a no-nudity policy in each others presence, this works to complement the abstinence clause.
Rent a room
If you're already cohabiting with your fiance prior to your nuptials then make your wedding night special by having it spent on a different place from home. A new surrounding will definitely spice things up, think of something like an excellent hotel room for the night, or if the budget allows then you can book the honeymoon suite. The idea is to spend the night is a different wedding venue.
Do it early
As we all know, sex is never fun when you're exhausted. Therefore, do not wait until you're exhausted to the bone to consummate your marriage. Arrange to sneak away during the reception and spent some time by yourselves. The party will proceed without you for sometime; if necessary inform your best man and maid of your plan so that they cover for you.
Don't be intimidated by the difficult to get into gown that your bride is wearing, make the moment special by helping her out of it, this could be done as part of the foreplay rather than letting her struggle out of it. Don't get frustrated with the various buttons, bows and fasteners. Take your time and make it fun.
by: Johnny Touperin
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