How To Get The Most Out Of Online Dating And Avoid Mistakes That Can Cost You A Date

In the online dating world it is very easy to get a bad reputation or to make a mistake that could cost you a potential first date

. If you are seriously looking for a partner then obviously meeting up is fairly essential to that relationship blooming but it is so easy to say, write or put across the wrong thing. They are so many things to consider it can lead to a simple mistake that puts out a bad or wrong message. If you already have a dating profile somewhere but have never actually met up with anyone then ask yourself why this is?

Here are a few tips on how to make the online dating world work for you and maximise the chance of finding a special someone.

Make sure your profile photograph is currant and reflects you age and background appropriately and only add photo's of yourself on your profile. This may seem to be obvious but so many people are 'forgetting' to update their profile pictures that most of us do not trust a simple picture.

Always use appropriate language and think about the words you are using. The words on your profile may be the only things people even read from you so make sure they reflect the person that you are. Spend the time filling it in properly don't just say the obvious things really think about who you are and make the words you use reflect that.

This courtesy and respect for who you are should extent to others too so when in a chat room use appropriate language, spelling and grammar. Think about what it is you are saying and do not get caught up in how others are talking, always be yourself. Look at what you have written before you send any email or chat comment because there are no take backs once it's out there.

Try and give people the opportunity to see more of who you are by writing about what you are doing in terms of interests, family or work, give a full and detailed picture of your life and people will respond to your honest and open nature, this builds up trust and trust leads to an actual date.

If you have struck up a conversation with a specific person then asking them question about what they are doing and their hobbies is fine within the context of a natural conversation but don't drill them for information with short sharp questions. If you are asking questions about someone that may be personal then make sure you have already given them the information about yourself, again this open and honest approach will certainly make you appear to be genuine. It is also a good measure of whether you have a genuine connection if you are writing paragraphs about yourself and they are giving one word responses then just assume they are either very slow at typing (to save your feelings) or just not interested.

At this point moving on to someone else who will actually appreciate who you are is the best way to find someone to connect with.

by: Susan Lancaster

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