Men Online Dating Tips : Men, Do Not Beg Online, Rather Offer Value
Men Online Dating Tips : Men, Do Not Beg Online
, Rather Offer Value
You know the phrase, beggars can't be choosers?
It dates back over 450 years and it's as true today as it was back then.
And it is ESPECIALLY TRUE for online dating for men.
Attractive women receive volleys of emails from guys and if your initial letter or your profile has even a WHIFF of begging or attention, for approval or for a date, you are sunk.
As well you should be.
In everything I write, I show you how to reframe your thoughts, your communications, your actions and your body language to demonstrate that you are not "needy" but rather the SOURCE OF VALUE.
The "energy" that you give off in your words, actions and body should be solidly in the camp of radiating value outward and not hoping to bring energy inward.
You must reverse the power balance online that attractive women feel by employing very specific POWER REVERSAL TECHNIQUES.
Let me give you an example of what I mean, by turning neediness into offering
BEGGING EXAMPLE #1: NEED VS OFFERING
One guy opens his profile:
"I have moved to North Hollywood. I'm searching
for something.. I'm just not sure what or where
Happiness is on the top of my list"
He is saying, basically, I AM NOT HAPPY.
While that is very honest, a virtue in Los Angeles, he is communicating, "I AM INCOMPLETE, I NEED COMPLETION. SOMEBODY HELP ME" This is a subtle begging for a female savior. Most women prefer men who aren't searching for happiness, but rather, create it by choice
Compare this profile opening
"A true rebel to the end, I'm steeped in equal
parts of earth and heaven. I navigate the stars
and make it work here on the ground. Add in:
high intellectualism, strategic problem solving,
trail running, Maori warrior chanting at breakfast,
compassion, a deep love for humanity, and
occasional shamanic healings for street people.
I enjoy creating culture through art and music
events as well as making some myselfSocially
I'm very easy to get to know, and I love meeting
people, but it still will take a special lady to match
this catch. I'm super playful. Characters welcome
I am a true artist with strong loving arms to cradle
you."
"A true rebel to the end, I'm steeped in equal
parts of earth and heaven. I navigate the stars
and make it work here on the ground. Add in:
high intellectualism, strategic problem solving,
trail running, Maori warrior chanting at breakfast,
compassion, a deep love for humanity, and
occasional shamanic healings for street people.
I enjoy creating culture through art and music
events as well as making some myselfSocially
I'm very easy to get to know, and I love meeting
people, but it still will take a special lady to match
this catch. I'm super playful. Characters welcome
I am a true artist with strong loving arms to cradle
you."
This isn't a man who needs a woman to complete him. He's not begging. He's CHALLENGING HER.
Look at all the active verbs: he NAVIGATES, he SOLVES he LOVES while asking for nothing in return, he HEALS street people (ok, I don't know what that even means, but still, he's radiating value OUTWARD to others without asking for anything in return), and he challenges her to be worthy of him and smart guy offers strong arms to cradle her.
He is even REWARDING.
He has no need in his profile only offering. Offering of strength, of love, or tenderness, of strength.
How can you REVERSE the power in your profile so that a woman does not feel like you are begging for help or completion, but rather OFFERING value as a man? Not as a way to win women, but, as this writer did, as your natural state of being.
For more on how to Reverse the Power in your Favor be sure to watch this video: www.DeepAttractionOnline.com
Meanwhile if 10 of you comment today, I will post a KILLER example of ANOTHER way to take the Power.
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