How To Be The Charming And Hunky Man Every Woman Wants
The truth is in dating girls, there are no magic formulas
, no fail-proof tricks, no one-size-fits-all tips, no cunning ways of winning the heart of Mr. Right and Miss Right. However, there are some essential facts you need to bear in mind if you want to improve your chances of attracting the girls you want.
Here are some fairly universal ideas/ways which can benefit anyone who practices them in dating:
(1) Be open-minded
You need to avoid being too judgmental seeing partying or having fun as something that is only for shallow, immature people. There are times when you should be serious and there are times when you should just relax and have fun. If you are too serious and cannot loosen yourself up at times, how can you be in date or in a relationship?
(2) Do not be too concerned over every outcome
This is actually the most important you need to remember. A lot of guys are quite talkative and sociable when they mingle with other males but become tongue-tied when meeting girls. This is because they are too anxious in wanting to present a good impression to girls. This can seem quite odd to you. Before you taste success, fist you must know that at times, not due to your fault, things may not work out (the girl may have some character problems) and you must prepare to walk away and get on with life. Treat every meeting with a girl as normal or ordinary as you can (tell yourself this is no big deal). If you do this, chances are you will be more relaxed or be at ease in front of girls and you will come across to them as a guy who is fun to be with.
(3) Build friendships with other males
It is also important that you build good friendships with other men. Most men who do not feel confident around women tends not to get along well with other men either. Play some team sports and go out with other guys. Act "silly" with them and get loose!
(4) Challenge yourself
Be willing to push things further than anyone else. Take risks and do things you normally will not do. Be a bit crazy at times but do not do anything unsafe. Make slightly more outrageous or edgy jokes. Just constantly push your own boundaries and see what you can get away with.
(5) Be thick-skinned
Stop thinking that you are the center of the world and stop worrying about what others think of you. Get a sales job and get used to being rejected. Know that not everyone will like you and that you do not need them to like you. Focus on being competitive with yourself instead.
(6) Have ambitions and be naturally competitive with yourself
Most people will tell you that women like men with ambition. The more you have in your life be in wealth or money will help you feel you have more choices or access to more women.
(7) Be spontaneous
Embrace uncertainty and make quick decisions on the spot. Let the spurts of moment impulses run wild and do things that are unexpected. Let your plans change based on the environment. Let situations flow freely without too much logical input.
(8) Have things to live for outside of a relationship
If you make a woman your whole world, or stick to her like a chewing gum, for sure, your relationship will eventually wither away. Go out and explore the world around you. Get interested in what life has to offer you. Go out and meet new people. Read books and join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups or take classes. Travel to new countries. Try new hobbies.
(9) Be less available
Do not be available all the times. Do not answer every call and do not accept every date. Let there be priorities other than dating and romance. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery, do not jump to bed with your dates too soon. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you, the more likely that love can blossom.
(10) Exercise and dress well
Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, get fit and have a well-balanced diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Do not try to be someone you are not, but amplify and accentuates your positives. Throw away those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up.
How To Be The Charming And Hunky Man Every Woman Wants
By: Ng Eng Hou
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