How to Get a Man to Share His Feelings
span>Share:When we think intimacy, we often assume that means physical intimacy. But most women thrive on the kind of intimacy that occurs when a man shares his feelings with us. Women do this with each other and that's a primary reason why we treasure our women friends. Sharing from the heart, especially with our man, is like a trip to heaven.So how does a woman get a man to open up and share his feelings? Not easy when most men don't open up about much of anything personal, yet alone their feelings.
First, you have to realize that men are taught, from a very early age, to pretty much ignore what they're feeling. When they're little boys, they're taught to "stop crying," "don't be a baby," "pick yourself up and get back out there," "don't be a sissy." And even if he had enlightened parents, when he gets old enough to hang out with other boys, they teach each other. I saw a video of a boy, maybe ten years old, who said he never lets himself cry around the other boys, even when he gets hurt really bad. And I watched my grandson, whose mother IS enlightened, hold back tears when he couldn't get on the rides at the fair because he was still too short. He didn't want his older, taller friend to see him cry. Broke my heart.
Here's a Method That Will Get Him To Share His Feelings With You
Because most men are uncomfortable with sharing their feelings, you have to start slow. He's going to be guarded at first, but if you keep letting him see that you're safe to open up to, he'll eventually open up. But don't ever expect him to share like your girlfriends do. But even a little bit of sharing will make him feel closer to you and your bond will grow ever stronger.
Find a time when he's not doing anything like reading the paper, searching the internet, or watching TV. Sit with him for a bit, just relaxing with him. Then ask him a not too probing question. Nothing about your relationship or how he feels about you. That's way too scary for him because he'll assume you have an expectation of what you want him to say, and he's pretty sure he'll get it wrong.
The kind of questions you ask will elicit him to talk about his feelings, but not be scary. Here are a list of questions you can ask.Download PDF here.
When you ask these questions, be sure and allow him to have as many of what I call, his "moments of silence." This is when he's gathering his thoughts. Men tell me all the time that women don't listen. That's because women jump in whenever there's an opening. His moments of silence are required for him to feel comfortable. Men don't just talk to be talking. They want to make sense so they choose their words carefully. Remember, your goal is to get him to open up, not you. You do that all the time and easily.
Also, don'tever repeat what he shares with anyone. Men know women blab and they hate it. He may share things that are uncomfortable for him. If he finds out you've told someone else, he may never open up to you again. Then, intimacy will not grow but instead, shrink. When that happens, love begins to die.
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