Dating For Boomers - Why Going Online is a Powerful Strategy

Remember the bad old days where you had to hang out at a bar to find a woman

, or worse still , wait until a friend of yours felt sorry enough for you to set you up with one of their women friends hoping that you two would hit it off. Now at our age we look out of place( and downright deviate!) if we go to a disco, and let's face it, hanging out at bars week after week is soul destroying.

And the biggest problem with these old systems is that we have no information on the woman when we approach her. Firstly it is scary to have to get up the courage to approach a complete stranger and start a conversation with her. Secondly, we have no idea whether she is even single and thirdly, we have no idea whether she has the basic attributes we are looking for.

Let me give you an example. I have a few "no go " zones that are mandatories for me. I don't like smokers: I like my woman to be well educated and intelligent: I want someone that can string two words together effectively and express herself well. For many men who are looking to breathe some life into their dating life, knowing where to meet women is one of the first, and most annoying, challenges that they face. After all, even if you know how approach women and how to attract women, you still have to know where you can find them and where they'll be open to being approached and asked out on a date. So if you're ready to get your dating life together, the best place to start is..

Online

So are you now thinking that only losers or desperates use the internet? Well, that might have been true about 10 years ago...but times have changed.

Now, the internet is a perfect way to decide where to meet women and to get to know them. Why? Well every woman on the dating site is single and looking for a male!! This is the ultimate niche marketing!! The internet site provide you with a veritable bucketload of women that you can select for age, interests, education, smoker/non smoker, children/no children etc etc.

For the best results, do the meeting online, but make sure that you're moving the interaction into the "real world" as soon as possible. Don't get caught up in the email ping pong that feels safe but won't move you forward.. You need to meet face to face as soon as practical to see whether you both click or not.

Treat these meetings as an opportunity to hone your communication skills and sort out what you do or do not want in a future partner. You can also treat every meeting as an opportunity to widen your social world. I have heaps of friends now (all girls) that I "hang" with. They are all great and are very willing to be used as a sounding board when I have dating issues as well, so get out there and meet all these amazing women and treat every date as an opportunity to learn more about yourself. It's like a wonderful new shopping expedition!

Researchers have found that it is a much more successful way to find long-term romance and friendship for thousands of people. In fact, they have shown that 94% of people who meet this way go on to a second date and the relationships lasted for an average of 7 months with 18 percent lasting for over one year. Now you have to admit that's pretty good odds!!

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Dating For Boomers - Why Going Online is a Powerful Strategy

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