There are many dating myths that have been formulated over the years which need to be clarified and laid to rest once and for all
. When two people are attracted to each other, there is a feeling of excitement in the air, when they actually decide to go out on their first date. In their anxiety, they may arm themselves with myths that may nor may not work to spark the enthusiasm that is required to make the evening memorable.
Do not be under the misconception that women go out with guys only if they are good looking or have a fat bank balance. If you look around you, you will see women totally involved with a bald or pot-bellied man. Women like to see beyond the superficial faade and if they find what they are looking for when they go out on a date, they are drawn towards their partner. He may be able to hold her attention with light banter or talk on a subject she is interested in. If you are of the opinion that you should do all of the talking, to keep your woman captivated, you are on the wrong track. That is one dating myth that has to be quelled. Women like to exchange information so that they can decide whether they are making the right choice. Bring up conversation threads that allow her to talk about her favorite subject...herself.
It is essential to remember that there are no rules to dating. Trying to be sensitive to her woes and promising to be a friend will not get her into bed. You may end up as a good friend and not her lover. The worst thing you could probably do on a date is to constantly seek her approval and shower her with gifts unless she has earned them. You are more than welcome to take care of your woman but make sure you establish a reward system where she gets something when her behavior is to your liking. Women are fair when it comes to going out on a date with someone they care about.