For Women: You are not your body. Would you still be the same person if you were to lose a finger? Of course you would. The lack of a physically attractive wife is believed to be the primary motivating factor for male dissatisaction in marriage. I disagree strongly. Women most commonly decide to divorce their spouse because he doesn't make them happy. The number one reason men divorce is because they believe they can't make their wife happy anymore. The most important thing to a married man is that his wife is happy and that he is doing a good job, not that she has a perfect body.