Do you feel like your heart is ripped out of your chest and fried like bacon? Breaking up is one of the hardest things you can experience. What's worse is if you've become dependent to your partner for a long time.
The first thing you must work on is survival. If you've become financially dependent to your partner for a long time then it's going to take you a hard time surviving on your own, but don't worry survival is an instinct. You'll find a way to save yourself.
Look for a job, whatever it is as long as it will give you a roof over your head and a decent meal. If it requires you to work hard, then do it. You'll have to start with these things. You can improve later but you must start with small things.
Work on your confidence. Once again know who you are and what you can do. It's all about survival. You must trust yourself once again. You must be able to get the mindset of trust in yourself.
Do not fear. You will make it.
Now if you want to get your ex back I have a book below you can use, but if you don't have any money left. Don't spend it on this ebook. Only buy this when you're not in a tight spot.
If you've decided to get your ex back then listen carefully.