3 Things Women Do To spook A Man
OK, so Halloween is just around the corner so I thought Id give you the heads up
on 3 easy ways you can spook a man out of wanting to commit to you.
The thing is, until you and your man have been dating long enough to be in a serious relationship things can be a little delicate.
Its usually those first 6 months when youre probably not exactly sure whats going on in his head.
You may find one minute youre so excited and optimistic that this guy could be the one.
Then the next minute youre worrying about whether this guy will break your heart and youre just not sure you can go through that pain again.
These first few months are both exciting and terrifying at the same time.
So to get through this tricky time when even the smallest remark could send him running for the hills Ive outlined my Top 3 Things Women Do To Spook A Man.
So if youre ready to delve into the dating pumpkin today lets get started
Oh, and Ill show you how to avoid spooking him of course and how to still be together at Christmas!
THE TOP 3 THINGS WOMEN DO TO "SPOOK" A MAN and how to avoid them!
1. INSECURITY
Or as a guy would put it acting needy.
This is the No.1 killer of relationships in the early stages so lets get to the bottom of it once and for all.
You must become aware of where and when youre seeking out:
To know what hes thinking about you
His approval for how you look, feel or behave
His affection
Having him fix your life
Of course we all have times in our life when we feel lonely and we all at our core want to feel loved and secure
BUT
You need to become aware of your own emotions and how they may be coming out in the things you say and do with a guy.
For example:
If youre texting him too often seeking to know how interested in you he is this can be a sure-fire turn off.
If youve not got much going on in your life outside of him he can feel as if youre too reliant on him for your happiness
If youre keen to spend a lot of time together, hes likely to feel pressured and may fear losing his freedom
Now don't misunderstand me here: Being able to rely on someone when youve had a tough day is totally acceptable and is all part of a healthy relationship
Putting too much importance on how this man will change your life will only lead to disaster and SPOOK him.
Hell start to feel pressured and.
That sense of certainty and security youre so longing to have in a relationship will never materialize.
You must first learn to have the confidence in yourself and I can teach you how in my book The Secrets To Finding & Keeping An Amazing Man.
2. GETTING TOO "COMFORTABLE" TOO QUICKLY
Yep, we all know being single can feel crap at times.
Why can we just meet a guy, fall in love and be in a great relationship?
As women, we often want to skip past the initial dating phase.
We want to cut to the chase and know if he is the one.
After all, we dont want to waste our time if hes not right?
But by doing this we push a guy too quickly. Men often take a lot longer than women to know if a relationship is right for them and in our need for security and to be loved we actually push him away.
So dont skip this phase, just relax and enjoy it after all youll never get those heady days again!
3. TRYING TO CHANGE HIM
OK, so youve met this guy but then you find out that there are just some things youd really rather were different about him.
Perhaps youd rather he didnt watch or play quite as much football
Maybe hes got a bad wardrobe
Or maybe you wished he didnt have and ex wife and kids.
Well one thing is fir sure here, if you start any relationship off wanting him to be different then its just not going to work.
Youll end up frustrated and nagging him to change
Or worse still TELLING HIM what he should do!
Your only job is to express to him in a positive way how his actions or behaviours affect you and then LEAVE IT.
Its up to him to choose to change if he wants to and for you to accept him as he is or decide whether to continue the relationship with him.
Final Thoughts
If youre newly dating a man don't spell out all of your future plans to him expecting him to be the one in them. Go for your plans and the future you want yourself and if this guy is smart, he'll realize that you're one to keep and hell want to be the one making you happy every day!
So now that you know some of the things that SPOOK a guy, you may be wondering why theyre so afraid of commitment in the first place.
Well... Ive laid it all out for you in Chapter 4 of my book "The Secrets To Finding & Keeping An Amazing Man"
Men have a lot of fears when it comes to relationships.
Learn what they are here:
http://www.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/products-and-services.phpHappy Halloween!
by: Sharon Vickery
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