10 Things Men Look for in Women
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. If you have a question, concern, comment, or simply have a topic that you wish to read about, email Dear Billy at the email address below located in the "About the Author" section. All emails will be processed and answered immediately. I have had numerous people email me asking what men look for in a woman. Kim from Altoona, Sherry from Jackson and the rest of you who asked the question, here you have it.
Top 10 things men look for in women
1. Appearance
The first thing we see when meeting someone is his or her physical appearance (face, clothing, body, etc). Let's face it; we are all materialistic to a point, some more than others. When a man first meets a woman, he looks at her face and makes an immediate decision. Should I stay or should I go? Most men have pretty bad poker faces when it comes to women. At first glance, the woman knows whether or not the man likes her. When it comes to love and relationships, most men are transparent.
2. conversation
Once the woman passes the appearance test, she graduates to the conversational stage. Sharing the same hobbies, music tastes and restaurants is a good sign of compatibility. It's generally a turn off if the woman makes it a point to show that she is smarter than him. You would be surprised how many times I have heard of dates ending early do to female dominance. That said, men don't want a woman who has the common sense of a grapefruit either. It's actually very simple. Men are looking for someone to sit and have a conversation with, without having to worry about saying the wrong thing and offending someone. Walking on eggshells gets very tiresome quickly.
3. Guy's night out
Men need women to understand the concept of a guy's night out or alone time. There is no reason for him to loose his friends when he gains a girlfriend. The way you keep a friend is by spending time with them. Logically he will not be spending as much time with his friend as before the two met however, friends are important to keep as well. There's nothing more annoying to a man then his girlfriend calling every five minutes when he's playing poker with the guys.
4. Good Kisser
There's nothing more frustrating than a woman who kisses as if she's trying to scrap the enamel off of a man's teeth. Where do women learn to do that? It's horrific. They need to slow down, use finesse, and enjoy the moment.
5. Intimacy Communication
Some men want to know exactly what makes women happy however, it can also be fun finding out by going down the list until you find the right one. Don't be shy; communication is the key to a successful relationship.
6. Parental Relationships
Your parents & family have been with you through thick and thin (for the most part). They have been with you when you were young, a teenager, good, bad, upset, angry, and happy. It's safe to say that your parents have been with you while experiencing some, if not all emotional states. The relationship that a women has with her parents / family can tell you a lot about her. Men find that if she has a good relationship with her family, it is a positive sign.
7. Hygiene
There's no reason to complicate this one. Either you have good hygiene or you don't. I speak for all men when I say, women place good hygiene on your top5 list of things to do daily.
8. Faithfulness
Men are looking for a women who has a good track record of being faithful to the one their with. A man with at least a shred of common sense will ask around and get the 411 on her social activities.
9. Expectations
Today it's hard to find someone to help you with something without him or her expecting something in return. Similarly, there are too many people who take everything they can get and then disappear when you need something. It's all about, what's in it for me? There's no difference when it comes to some relationships. Men are simply looking for a woman who is both thankful and giving. For some reason that's hard to find today.
10. Hanging out with the X
Men are hoping to find a woman that comprehends that they don't like them spending time with their ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands for obvious reasons. If the woman doesn't understand why this would bother him, this is evidence enough of the relationship terminating.
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10 Things Men Look for in Women
By: William Bailey
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