Breast Enlargement Options Include Just Making Men Want You As You Are
Undergoing breast enlargement surgery is painful and expensive and unnecessary
. In advertising yourself to men, large breasts can get attention, but clinching the "sale" depends on making a compelling offer. The breasts aren't the offer. The compelling offer is you.
What are you trying to accomplish? If you need big breasts for professional reasons -- if you are an actress for example -- then you already know if you need big breasts. If you are in sports, you already know you need small breasts. In neither case would you be reading this article. It is likely you are contemplating breast enlargement to be more attractive to men.
You might start by asking "Do guys like big breasts?" The answer is that some do, and some don't care that much. It is both cultural and individual.
North American men can only like breasts because we keep them covered. In societies where breast feeding is common, breasts are not considered erotic. Moreover, there have been relatively recent periods where small was preferred, for example during the flapper era of the 1920s. There's always the risk that that fashion might come back in just after you've had surgery.
Large breasts are in at the moment. If you understand why men would fixate on them, you are in a better position to plan your response to the situation.
Male sexuality can be expressed as, "Love you honey. Nothing personal." It is a matter of symbolism. Men are attracted to what symbolizes Woman to them. A big component of male sexuality is visual, so boys imprint on some female features when they enter puberty. They have plenty of encouragement to imprint on breasts.
Networks of neurons in our brains classify what we see. The more conspicuous the features they are programmed for, the stronger their response. Big breasts get a stronger response than small ones.
The biggest mistake you can make is to use this as the sole reason to have your breasts enlarged. That would be to rely on a gimmick to attract men, and the gimmick doesn't do enough.
I knew a woman who had plastic surgery -- in her case, a nose job -- in hopes of attracting men. She was so needy that she could only absorb attention, not give any back. No one could get close to her emotionally. The surgery was painful, expensive, and futile.
Consider it to be an advertising problem to attract a man. One way to design an advertisement is given by the acronym AIDA: Attention, Interest, Desire, Action. The desire and action come from making a compelling offer.
Breast size gets attention. Breasts are like the title of a sales page. The job of the title is to get the audience to read the advertisement, far enough to come to the compelling offer, and the offer is YOU.
So what should you do to be a good advertisement for yourself? Whatever you do, it had better be true to yourself -- men commit to women because they want them for themselves, and if you fake who you are in order to attract a man, you are preparing the way for unhappiness later. Unlike fairy tales, the story doesn't end at marriage.
You can accentuate aspects of yourself that are irresistable to most men -- at least, the kind of men who are worth attracting.
Remember, men are programmed to respond to The Feminine. If you act with feminine grace, if you are at home in yourself, especially if you are utterly comfortable with your sexuality, men will instantly detect that and be attracted to you from across the room. An aspect of this is to understand men and appreciate them for what they are. Feminine grace is powerful.
With feminine grace, you don't even need the headline of big breasts to get men's attention. Grace itself arouses their interest and builds their desire. And you can practice your feminine grace. It is quick and a lot less pain and expense than breast enlargement surgery.
by: Thomas Christopher
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