Superwoman Syndrome: A Woman's Work Is Never Done Sandra rushed into her counseling session 10 minutes late. Apologizing profusely she moaned, "Sorry I'm late. There's never enough time in the day to get everything I need to get done. I always feel like I'm rushing to get to the next thing. Is it ever going to stop?" Sandra's complaint made me pause, because I too was feeling stressed and overwhelmed, anxious about all the things...more
Women and Divorce in Later Life Although the rate of divorce among older Americans has steadily been on the increase (about five fold in 25 years), few definitive studies have been done to bring attention to this situation. The prediction is that the divorce rate will continue to increase as a large portion of Americans (namely Baby Boomers) enters the 60 and over age group (www.aoa.gov).1 While most divorces occur within the first seven...more
Hiding the Pain: How Women Medicate Their Brokeness If we look a little closer we will find many women in our counseling room using many different styles of self-medicating their pain and escaping their brokenness. Many common styles of pre-addictive denial are what I call “cocoon” comforters. Cocoon Comforters: Hiding a Hurting Heart These women are not yet addicts, and although most are not being abused or traumatized, some are. These are ordinary women—wives and mothers attempting to live life while carrying a heavy burden. In the midst of the hussle and stress of life, their pain and brokenness have become overwhelming. Maybe a past trauma is triggered or there is a major change in their lives, such as job transfer, a new baby, a difficult marriage, divorce, depression, stress, or lack of sleep—all wrapped around the lack of connections to a meaningful community or fear mixed with shame about sharing one’s pain.To escape, these women curl up into a cocoon and participate in a particular set of “cocooning” behaviors in an attempt to avoid and numb their pain. These women may look forward to a nightly drink, relish a whole...more
Women and Depression You would think with all the advances in modern technology and the sciences that life would be easier and we would be healthier and happier. Still on the Rise However, epidemics of stress, anxiety and depression are still on the rise around the world, especially among young women. With every generation onset is...more
How to Meet Women - 2 Ways to Leave Her Wanting More! How many times have you seen the woman of your dreams walk right past you, only to feel helpless because there's no way you could approach her and slip her the magic words to get her phone number. Nearly all guys don't know how to meet women. They spend their entire lives waiting to...more
How to Flirt with Women in 3 Basic Steps Sick of being single? Want to know how to flirt with women, so you can finally get into the dating scene? It's not as hard as you probably think it is. Most guys are under the impression that if they can't orchestrate an array of perfectly choreographed lines and moves, they're hopeless. This couldn't be further from the truth, my friends. Here are a few steps to help you out:Stay confident. This is one of the most attractive traits in a man. A lot of things can help build confidence: new clothes, a fresh haircut, career success, a fancy car, or anything that you enjoy that makes you happy. Take care of yourself, and do things that you like, and you'll be be on your way to a more confident life.Keep a good sense of humor. Most women don't like our "guy humor", as I like to call it. The one about the naked pirate with the wooden leg probably won't win her over. I'm not saying you need to memorize a book of classy jokes, but an upbeat attitude with a lot of smiles and laughs can go a long way.Keep a little physical contact. I don't want you physically harass the poor girl; what I mean by physical contact is more along...more
Advantages and Shortcomings of Taking Counseling to Save Your Marriage Can you remember the times when you and your husband or (wife) were happy, excited and enthusiastic about each other. Just picture your self in the day you got married,...more
How The Experts Pick Up Women All The Time! Have you read The Game by Neil Strauss? It's credited with popularizing Pick Up Artists (PUAs). Dating has become enjoyable again for the many men who've read the book and are following its...more
You Can Meet And Attract Beautiful Women - Here's How! Guys everywhere want to know how they can meet the stunning women we see all around us. There are special places you can go to meet them, and there are special ways to treat them....more
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Wholesale evening dresses shouldn't be as difficult to come by. Just because they are larger than normal, it does not mean that bigger sized ladies needs to have a difficult time getting one. It really is obviously the imagine every single lady to...more
Discussing Most Popular Women's Fragrances: on Top Brands How ironic will you feel about perfumes, especially when someone gifts you the one of your favorite small bottle perfume? This is true that woman are crazy for perfumes and always...more