Why do women get to cheat?
Why do women get to cheat?
Why do women get to cheat?
WHY DO WOMEN CHEAT?
Samantha gets bored quickly. She's one of those women who live for change the new and exciting. She buys shoes and outfits every pay day. She changes hairstyles every two weeks. For boyfriends, she throws them around and away as quickly as babies change diapers. She was married once, but it didn't last. Although she loved her man dearly, she was caught cheating.
Is she afraid of commitment? Is there not one man who can make her happy? Let's delve deeper. Does Samantha really know what she wants? Is Samantha happy with herself? Infidelity has major consequences. Samantha knows this, but for some reason she can't stay in one relationship. Interestingly; she doesn't even know why. Familiarity becomes routine for her, and she loses sexual interest quickly. When she's caught cheating by one of her lovers, she explains it was only about sex. She enjoys the passion of an unknown body, but once that body becomes too familiar, she's out the door and on to the next.
In THE BLACK MAN'S GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING THE WOMAN', the author states that a woman is a pseudo romantic creature who cannot be trusted in the presence of strange men for long, because she is always open for a line, especially if it's one telling her how beautiful or desirable she is. "Without exception," she says, "if a man pursues a woman long enough with compliments, flowers, phone calls and the like, she will ultimately go to bed with him. She enjoys the special attention and wants to believe that he will compliment and admire her forever."
That brings us to Nancy. She was in a relationship for five years. They met at University, spent all of their time together, talking into the wee hours of the morning. He showered her with gifts, told her he loved her everyday, and was hungry for sex every night. When he took a demanding job, he was often very tired and went directly to bed. And on weekends he wanted to relax and spend time with his friends. This hurt Nancy deeply; but she never told him. She never asked, "What's wrong?" "Do you still love me?" Often she assumed he must be cheating, because, she felt, he couldn't always be working so late. She never asked. She wanted his attention, but didn't know how to ask for it. Selfishly, she could not see that he was an overworked man and needed more of her attention, or sometimes even space. Although she really wanted to be married to him, she never asked him when or why.
Nancy began to sleep with other men. For once she said she felt more loved and respected. There was something that every guy brought to her life that her man didn't. Funny thing though, she could never explain exactly what that was. She never told or asked him once for what she needed to make the relationship feel complete. Eventually, she left behind too many clues of her cheating and was soon caught. She lost her best friend, her boyfriend and five years of building her life, all within one person. All for what?
Why can't these women take what they already have and make it better? Is it the man's fault? Is it the woman's fault? Is it both their faults? Obviously, if one is just totally unhappy in a relationship, they should discuss it with their partner and if the problems can't be rectified, then yes, by all means break camp there and then. But if one doesn't even know what they want, can't even describe it, is the problem with the relationship or with the person him or herself?
A woman like Samantha doesn't ever know what it takes to make her happy. She's never searched within herself long enough to know. She's never spent time alone being introspective, learning about herself. Nancy on the other hand, has communication problems. How can she expect to get what she doesn't ask for? These two examples do not take men off the hook. It is as much their fault that these types of women cheat as it is their woman's. They (men) are not expected to be mind readers, of course, but if they care enough, they can ask a woman if she's happy in the relationship. They can ask her what it will take to make her happy. And if he's wise, he won't cheat either, unless he's willing to let her do the same.
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