Just about everybody on earth wants to have a great marriage
. No body needs trouble within their marriage, everybody like to have a happy family. But that does not always take place since marriage is a difficult thing.
So what you must do to save your marriage even only if you want it and your spouse does not seem too interested. You must ask yourself these 3 simple questions.
1. Ask yourself, do you still believe in this marriage?
This is definitely the most vital question to ask yourself. If you are confuse about your relation with your partner and don't really know if it is important to save it, you're very unlikely able to save your marriage. You must have a feeling that this marriage is important to you and this is what you want. Only with the right feeling you can save a marriage.
2. Ask yourself, do you have faith in yourself?
This question is not about your spouse, it is about you. Do you really think you can save your marriage? Do you think you have enough energy to do it?
Do you believe you can sacrifice other things in the procedure to rescue your marriage? Do you think you can face rejection from your spouse?
Do you believe you will never give up even after getting rejected by your spouse? If all your answer is yes, you start to find a way to save your marriage. If your answer is no so start the divorce process. Remember you need to believe in yourself.
3. Ask yourself; are you willing to take some advice from third party?
It is necessary to ask yourself this question. This is because some people think he/she can save a marriage by his/her own effort.
I know you still believe in your marriage and you have faith in yourself to save your marriage but that just not enough. Sometimes you require a third party just to save a marriage.
Your third party can easily be anyone such as your friend or parent. But most of the time it is better for you to use marriage counselor. A marriage counselor has qualification and most importantly they have experience to deal with marriage.
If you answer to all the question is yes, you are in good position to save your marriage and you can start to think ways on how to save your marriage. Just remember even if you are the only one interested you can save your marriage.