Wedding Speeches - Make a Wedding Toast in 3 Steps
Speaking in public can be a frightening experience
, for some people it can be terrifying. One study showed some people had a greater fear of public
speaking than they did of dying. So, if you feel tense, worried or even a little stressed about having to make a wedding toast you are not alone, it is perfectly natural. The danger is you may let these feelings take over, which means you could follow your natural instincts and try to avoid the issue - put it to one side. This would be the worst thing you could do. The only way to deal with it is to start addressing it. The best way to do this is to take action and follow through in easy steps.Start Your Wedding Toast NowAs soon as you find out you are going to make a speech, start working on it straight away. We all have a tendency to put off unpleasant or difficult tasks, but this is not the thing to do. Time will fly and catch you unprepared. You could find yourself without a properly finished speech with the wedding right on top of you, which means you could be under such pressure that you cannot think clearly about what you want to say. If this carries through to the actual day, you could face a very stressful time, including increased nervousness, lack of confidence and, finally, disappointment in yourself.On the other hand, by starting your preparation early you will remove the time constraints, which allows you to put all your energies into preparing a good wedding toast.Write Down What You FeelThink about what you want to say. You will need to gather your thoughts and write them down. The important thing is to take action by writing down your thoughts even though they may be all over the place initially. Simply write what you feel. Your writing will start to make sense as more thoughts come and you start to get them into order. You do not have to be eloquent, but you do have to be sincere. If you are sincere, your audience will pick up on this and they will be on your side.Do the Very Best You CanWrite it and rewrite until you are happy with the finished article. Work on you speech until you can say it off by heart. Practice it out loud to yourself or to someone else. Practice your wedding toast as if you were giving it on the day. This will give you a chance to work on your delivery and make any corrections to words or phrases that do not sound quite right. It will also give you confidence. When you are happy with the final version, draw up some headings to use as notes.When the day comes you will feel nervous but that is natural. When the time comes for you to speak, your preparation will give you confidence and your nervousness will soon disappear. In fact, you will find yourself enjoying the experience and your audience will appreciate your efforts and respond with enthusiasm. You will be a big hit.
Wedding Speeches - Make a Wedding Toast in 3 Steps
By: William Burnell
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