Vancouver Dating How To Overcome Approach Anxiety And Fear Of Approach
Have you ever been walking down the street and saw an extremely beautiful woman that you want to meet
, but you dont know how?
You have that anxiety and fear take over your body youre paralyzed.
You begin thinking thoughts such as What am I going to say? or What if she doesnt like me? or What if I get rejected? or What if she has a boyfriend?
This goes on and on in your head.
Before you know it, she is gone. Shes vanished and youre left there wondering What if? and regretting it for the rest of the day.
Vancouver Singles go through this on a daily basis.
In fact, Vancouver Dating has changed radically in the last decade. More and more Vancouver Singles are settling and now one in two marriages end in divorce.
Im going to share with you Dating Vancouver secrets on how to overcome that anxiety and fear of the approach believe me, Ive been there before!
First, understand that approach anxiety is an EMOTIONAL STATE.
Its a feeling that you have.
It is caused by being stuck inside your head, being self-conscious, analyzing things and over-thinking. Its the focus on the negative.
Theres a powerful saying: Whatever you focus on, you feel!
If youre focused on the negative, then of course you will feel anxiety to approach her and will be uncomfortable with Vancouver Dating.
At the same time, CONFIDENCE is also an emotional state.
Confidence is triggered through focusing on and having the belief of why it will work out. Men that are confident believe She wants to meet me or Why wouldnt she want to talk to me?
They have BELIEF in themselves.
You get this through controlling your focus and eliminating those insecurities and doubts.
Before you approach a woman, try to get yourself in a powerful emotional state of confidence. Do this by taking a second and correcting those negative thoughts that come up. Instead, ask yourself a more empowering question.
Ask yourself, How can I approach her now and add value to her life?
What would I have to believe to be able to approach her?
What would I have to focus on to be able to approach her comfortably?
How can I make her smile?
Make your focus on how to add value to her and make her smile, instead of worrying so much about what will happen to you.
I also recommend a tip for Dating Vancouver women and overcoming that anxiety is to begin with baby steps. Approach a woman and ask for the time, for directions, or anything to push your comfort zone and to make you feel more comfortable with approaching women!
Eventually, it will become EASY and you will be confident.
Vancouver Dating becomes easy, women are attracted to you, and before you know it youre the man!
There are many Vancouver Dating Services available, the best Vancouver Dating Service being Lifestyle Transformations. They host a Free Vancouver Seminar called the Dating Mastery Seminars every Thursday in Vancouver for Vancouver Singles.
Another way to change your emotional state and to overcome that anxiety is to change the way youre using your body. Men that are confident are SMILING, breathing fully, standing tall, head up, shoulders back and projecting their voice!
Simply change the way you use your body and you will change the way you feel.
by: Stefan Pylarinos
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