Spend some time alone when you sit down to write your speech
. This will help to let the words flow naturally. Any distraction may result in you having to get your thought process into top gear all over again. The important thing is to practice your speech in front of the mirror once it is ready. Take a few deep breaths and imagine yourself on stage as you begin each rehearsal. On the big day you will be as confident as ever. Don't forget, one day you will have your grandchildren on your lap reliving those memorable moments all over again.