We know that women do not enjoy the company of overly self-assertive or self-confident guys.Some confidence is important and will be great as you move forward with your flirting techniques to connect with women.However keep in mind too much is NOT good.
What it boils down to is don't elaborate on how much income you make,how important your job is nor talk about yourself in detail either, since it will come across as you being a jerk and extremely self centered. Keep in mind you're wanting to connect and not chase them away...
Let's now move forward to the point of interest and see how we can find the right way to flirt with a girl.As we know flirting is a playful, romantic or sexual overture by one person to another indicating an interest toward the other person. In this case it's a pretty girl that's caught your eye.After a few glances it appears she's interested too by making eye contact several times back.
The connection is made and now you want to find out if the feeling is mutual. This whole eye contact and being attracted to her is all part of the flirting game or the human mating ritual if you may. When you're flirting it's a good idea to incorporate all the masculine qualities that women enjoy and are attracted to - such as confidence, humor, leadership to name few. Also keep in mind that women tend to respond to men who are confident and in touch with their emotions.
In the flirting stages body language plays a major role. Actually it's probably about 90% of the communication that goes on.The nonverbal cues pretty much take over the flirting and it's important that you're able to demonstrate that you have these core character traits women find appealing and you can express through your actions.The actual verbal communication is minimum.
Here's the thing, don't think that simply talking to a girl will make her interested. It's been known that two guys can say exactly the same thing, but how the message was delivered will make them sound like two completely different messages. One will hit home and the other will not - that's just how it is.
One important factor you need to know is that women have an almost natural instinct to flirt .They will also flirt regardless whether they're genuinely interested in a guy. You'll need to be able to read the signals whether she's interested in a romantic or a platonic way right from the start since it can and does create confusion on a large scale if not picked up on.
Flirting is fun and once you understand the ins and outs you'll be able to find the right way to flirt with a girl.