Gone are the days where only men were the ones who cheated on their spouses
. More and more women are having affairs these days and people are now asking why the turn of events. Women have affairs not for the thrill of cheating; it is because they have a need that they are not getting at home.
Women have a need to feel wanted and desired. Remember when you started dating and you used to complement her on her appearance. Now you barely notice if she gets her hair cut, bought a new outfit, lost a few pounds, or even put on fresh make-up. Women are seeking some sort of assurance that they are still attractive and when you do not give it to them, believe me some sweet talking man will.
Women have sexual needs too. When they are not getting them fulfilled at home, eventually they will go look for it in other places. Women have fantasies and even though they do not talk to you about them; they are there. Ask your wife if she ever has fantasies, she may be taken back by this conversation but eventually she will open up and you will be able to rekindle a spark that has been missing.
Women do not want to feel like everything they do at home is wrong, nobody does. If you do nothing but criticize your wife; eventually she will look for an outlet that makes her feel as if she is doing something right. Her boss or co-worker could be telling her what a great job she is doing at work and the next thing you know that working relationship has turned into physical relationship because this other man has made her feel that she can do something right after all.
Most women that have affairs love their husband and children; they just have a need for something that they are not getting at home. They do not search for single men unless they are ready to end the marriage. Those women who desire to have affairs seek out married men or other women. This way there is no emotional attachment it is a purely physical thing based strictly on sex. When most women have affairs they do not tell anyone, not even their best friend because they know that when other women get mad they tend to spill the beans and talk about everything they know.